I think he is beaking up.. help!

[Thomelise]

Hi! My boyfriend said a week sgo he started to Get unsure of everything, because of The distance.. he hates it, and said it just gets Harder and Harder everytime we meet.. he said he needed time to think and gather his mind, and some space to figure everything out for himself ..

We sent a week of not talking.. and he said he will give me a anwser about everything tonight ...

I dont know How to talk him out of dumping me ... :-/ anyone gone throu The same ting ? Have any tips? I really dont wanna loose Him just because of The distance....

[Redheart14]

Long distance is hard and isn't for everyone and that's ok. You can't talk him into something he doesn't want, but just try to relax see what he has to say and go from there. Maybe watch this together and see if it helps.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=aqSZtaFL2hg

[NewToLongDistance2016]

Hi! My boyfriend said a week sgo he started to Get unsure of everything, because of The distance.. he hates it, and said it just gets Harder and Harder everytime we meet.. he said he needed time to think and gather his mind, and some space to figure everything out for himself ..

We sent a week of not talking.. and he said he will give me a anwser about everything tonight ...

I dont know How to talk him out of dumping me ... :-/ anyone gone throu The same ting ? Have any tips? I really dont wanna loose Him just because of The distance....

This does not bode well...sorry to say. This kind of thing actually happened to me twice. This situation is super unfair to you because I have a feeling he already knows that he doesn't want to continue long distance and hopes to separate quietly w/out having to break up. The space and gathering his mind is absolute BS, I've had that line pulled on me and the guys didn't admit to wanting to break up until I asked them straight out. I'm wishing you the best and you do deserve better. Do not contact him and distance yourself from him.