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    Gf lives with roommates. Privacy issues?

    I’m kind of bothered with my current situation, you guys. A few months ago, I met my girlfriend through a romance tour. After my trip, me and my girl kept in touch and eventually, we got into a relationship. Now, the thing that’s been bothering me is the fact that she lives in a apartment which is shared with her and her friends.
    Being in a long distance relationship, I get that communication is important but how can I talk to her privately if her roommates are constantly in the picture? I’m getting to the point of getting annoyed but I don’t really know how to bring this up with my girlfriend. She might not like the fact that I have a problem with her friends always being there when we talk.
    I just really want to get this off my chest and find a way to deal with this in a good way. Has anyone tried this before cause I really need some advice on how I can handle this situation. Help me out here, fellas. I just want to talk to my girlfriend privately because there are alot of things I can’t say in front of her roommates! Any suggestions and comments would do! Please!
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    I'm currently living with 5 of my friends so i'm obviously around them quite a lot, but that being said i also know it's important to have time for just SO, so if i call her i'll normally sit with my friends for a bit and let them talk to her, then go to my room so we can talk privately. One of my friends i live with is also in a ldr and does the same as I do, we both know it's important to make our SO's feel welcomed by our friends, but also know it's important to have privacy.

    Try bring it up to her over text and if she still doesn't get the hint you might just have to out right say it on the phone with her friends there that you want to talk in private. best of luck to you
    my girls <3

    Josie (SO)
    Met online ~ 17th August 2017 ~
    Met in person ~ 30th August 2017 ~
    Became official ~ 15th September 2017 ~
    Closed the distance and moved in together! ~ 18th June 2018 ~

    Ash
    Met online ~ 21st November 2018 ~
    Met in person ~ 26th November 2018 ~
    Became official ~ 4th December 2018 ~
    All moved in together! ~ 30th May 2019 ~

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      "Honey, I think your friends are great and I don't mind saying hi to them, but i would really like it if we could talk in private". Frankly, if she id offended by this then you are into more problems down the line. I find it odd that seh wants to talk with yuu infront of her friends. You are not asking anything crazy.

      Does she have her own room? If yes then she can go there. If no, then she can lock herself in bathroom or go for a walk.

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