is it okay if my foreigner bf chats with other girls online?

[rona0105]

my ldr boyfriend created a pseudo account years ago. even before we met and he uses thag account to chat with different girls all over the world. I just learned about this after months of in relationship with him. he said the guy behind that pseudo account wasnt real and everything he says or do in that account was not the real him. according to him it was just for entertainment. but I am not comfortable that he is chatting with other girls. he would purposely switch accounts just to sed and chat with those girls. im confused right now. please give me your insights.thanks

[Allurial]

Even using a fake account it’s still him behind the keyboard, putting it plain and simple he was/is cheating on you with the other girls. If you don’t like it tell him to stop, if he doesn’t listen and says “it’s not really me” leave him. Honestly if I were you I’d leave now, it’s pretty clear he’s been shady this whole time, better to get out now.

[Lio]

He should be honest, and let you know about his female friends if you ask about them, if the topic is about one of them or etc. But I don't see the point of creating another account to chat with other girls. If he's flirting with them, then this is cheating, and the best thing to do is either to confront him about it, or either to leave him. I think that the excuse is not a good one, he sounds like a male version of an attention whore (again, as I mentioned it in another thread last night). Be careful. Good luck.

[Michelle]

Isn’t this the least of your worries since he is having sex with his local ex while in a LDR with you? https://members.lovingfromadistance....347#post443347

[erwin1973]

Isn’t this the least of your worries since he is having sex with his local ex while in a LDR with you? https://members.lovingfromadistance....347#post443347

Mm... I thought this was the same thread... lol.
I guess I would break up, if I were OP

[rona0105]

yes michelle and erwin its the same thread. and I guess you guys are really right. he's very shady. if he cany stay faithful and honest , then I think its time to pack up all the feelings I have left for him.thank you guys.