Communication issues

[ams3038]

Hello everyone, first off I want to explain a little back ground. My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years now. in the past 3 months ever since she flew back to college on the east coast we’ve barely been talking. I think it may be me just being insecure because of past relationships or just me overreacting. But if I don’t initiate the calls or most of the texts we really won’t talk much at all. And I’ve been giving her space to do her thing because of school, track, and a social life of course. And I understand life gets in the way because I used to be a student athlete for soccer. I just miss her so much and I feel like we’re like acting just more like friends then a couple. And I understand being busy I really do. I work two jobs and go to school but I still try and make time for her. We say I love you and all that but every time we talk it’s for 2 seconds because she is with her friends and I was ok with talking in front of her friends but sometimes I want to just talk to her and have a movie date over the phone or something. Like I just want an hour of her off day. And when she says she can finally talk. She goes out with her friends instead and I sit at home waiting for her to call because she said we could talk... idk what to do

[autumn1790]

Have you talked about this with her and explained it's bothering you? Does she fully understand your perception of the situation? If not, ask to have a talk and see where that goes. If nothing changes, follow your heart on what to do. Good luck!