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    How are you guys doing it?

    Hey!
    Im from Birmingham UK, my guy is from Chester,
    We dont see each other too much due to having kids and other issues,
    Last few days of texting has been awful,
    He feels "I push" I feel misunderstood.
    Ive suggested he doesnt text me for few days as ultimately the stress he talks about he impiles it's my doing,
    So I figured few days without talking might make him rationalize his thoughts better,
    Second to that I have Said I dont wish every text to be negative as it effects my mood and thus my daughter,

    What on earth do I do next?
    I dont feel pushy, I don't see it fair to be the direction of his anger,

    Please help me try figure out my next step.

    #2
    What do you mean by him feeling you "push"? Like, can you explain that a little more?
    Why would he imply you stress him out, how so?
    There's a lot of things missing here that make us not see the full picture.


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      #3
      I dont necessarily understand what he means either,
      When I've only tried to support him,
      He impiles I stress him out as In his opinion I don't give the answers he requires, by answers I mean he would prefer me to agree to everything he says and I very much won't agree if I disagree if that makes sense?
      I feel alot of it is misunderstandings however I can't see what else I can do other than ask him to take sometime for his own thoughts.

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