Hello again! Second blog with one of our common problems I have with my loved one. Recently, great exams are ahead for her so I though it would good to accompany her over a chat and give her advice on how to be calm and how to handle difficulties while it as I even made a little list.
I however got blocked recently because I've been giving her bad mood.
I'm a type who sacrifices much time into her when staying up an entire night despite a early working schedule, and give many attention even when being at work because I really value her and our relationship. She however claimed that sometimes when I support her, she ends up supporting me as the spotlight seems to be set on me only. I honestly can't remember calling for attention and that spotlight intentionally whenever she needed help, often she's hiding from me what's making her feel bad and I of course recognise it so I try on getting her attention so she opens up.
As she said, she doesn't want to feel bad on the exam day and blocked me. There, I don't know what to feel. Like either a bother to her or should I accept that I'm not a help in this situation? It's usual for her to block me whenever there's an argument and she feels bad, so I've always been trying to get her back, from what she stated, she's grateful form. I'm aware of her problems and issues overall thus giving my best to be a partner to her she can rely on.
What could I do in such a situation? What's your opinion? Should I be a better listener? What could i change?
I however got blocked recently because I've been giving her bad mood.
I'm a type who sacrifices much time into her when staying up an entire night despite a early working schedule, and give many attention even when being at work because I really value her and our relationship. She however claimed that sometimes when I support her, she ends up supporting me as the spotlight seems to be set on me only. I honestly can't remember calling for attention and that spotlight intentionally whenever she needed help, often she's hiding from me what's making her feel bad and I of course recognise it so I try on getting her attention so she opens up.
As she said, she doesn't want to feel bad on the exam day and blocked me. There, I don't know what to feel. Like either a bother to her or should I accept that I'm not a help in this situation? It's usual for her to block me whenever there's an argument and she feels bad, so I've always been trying to get her back, from what she stated, she's grateful form. I'm aware of her problems and issues overall thus giving my best to be a partner to her she can rely on.
What could I do in such a situation? What's your opinion? Should I be a better listener? What could i change?
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