What is one part of you that you hate?

[Karringtyn]

Mine is that I am stubborn. VERY STUBBORN. I get mad and I close off. Walls down. Curtains closed. Bridge burnt.

It is how I was raised...and I truly can acknowledge that it is wrong and I need to change it. And I have...a little..

My feelings get hurt...I over analyze it..and then I get mad.

One good thing is through years of therapy I can sense when I am getting this way and truly I am able now to see what I am doing. Sometimes I could care that I am doing it and say F&*% it and do it anyway...

It has caused some problems with SO and I..because I get sooo "closed off" after something happens and I distance myself...he has gotten good at realizing what is going on..and gives me the space I need.

SO...what about you?

[Zephii]

My thighs. But I know that's not what you meant. lol

I hate how unstable I am emotionally and occasionally wonder if I should be medicated for it. But most of all I hate my inability to enjoy holding down a normal job - that this one thing that society expects of us I can't seem to do without being miserable.

[mynameiseric]

I have two....my trust issues, and I overanalyze things wayyyyy too much. My trust issues are why Amanda and I have the problems that we do, and I nitpick every little thing that she does, not fun for her, so I feel like a shitty boyfriend alllll the time

[noodle]

My body lol or to be more exact the fat on it lol that's all.

[Caitlin2009]

i dont like that i have ADD because it gets me into trouble, i tend to speak before i think especially if im angry and then i say things without thinking them and have trouble explaining what i mean, thank god Denise knows this and understands but it still hurts her if i say something thats stupid. having ADD makes me also overly sensitive so if someone makes a joke sometimes it will hurt my feelings and Denise has had to explain that she only meant what she said as a joke and not to hurt my feelings, and then i tend to overthink things and read into things that arent there, thank god i have her because shes the only one who understands that when that happens i cant help it but at least she talks me through it

[Bluestars]

I am a very jealous person and have always been this way :/ Recently, I have been really jealous of a friend who got something big that I didn't, and I can't help but feel a bit green when she talks about how much money she made this summer....However, I am dealing with that and moving on!

It has sometimes affected my relationship with my SO though as well, mainly when I used to get jealous of him hanging out with his friends instead of me. I am a lot better about it, but if he hangs out with them a TON more than me, I still may get upset about it.

I also sometimes dislike my personality in the sense that I am very much a perfectionist and planner. It has definitely benefited me because I wouldn't be where I am today without it (like have a full ride to college), but I also know that I take it a bit to the extreme, and I wish that I could be a bit more spontaneous and more care free instead of always stressing myself out.

[nicole]

How I lock my feelings up to a point where there's a serious problem. I am so used to having to be ok for everyone, and not saying anything if something is wrong, it's weird having my SO who cares about everything I gave to say or feel. I've been so used to being ignored or I've tried to be invisible, it's hard to go from that to having someone who sees me and wants to know what I'm thinking. it's definitely something to work on.

and also, how overwhelmed I get myself. It's awful, I get myself so upset I can't physically speak and tell people whats wrong. Inside I am trying to speak, but my mouth won't open. it's horrible, and I get myself into horrible situations too =/ also, another thing for me to work on =/

and my body of course, everyone has their wobbly bits, but I won't go into mine, I've started going swimming to solve that problem

[lisaar910]

I hate that I'm such a pessimist. I have to constantly make an effort to be positive all the time. I thought that eventually if I worked on it consistently, it would start to come natural to be optimistic about things, but it hasn't worked so far. I'll keep trying though.

[xMesmerize124]

I really can't stand it when i over analyze situations, fights, etc and pretty much get myself really upset over it

[will]

I hate that I can be such a poor listener sometimes. I'd like to think that for the most part I'm pretty good at it...but the lapses bother me.

[squiddie]

Haha Zephii you said exactly what I was going to say: my thighs.

But yeah, I'd say the fact that I get in my head and just start tearing myself down sometimes. There are just days where, in my eyes, I've done nothing right and I'm a total failure, despite all evidence to the contrary. These moments always pass, but I hate that I put myself there. Penn wants me to see a psychiatrist about it.

[Talent_2]

Well physically everything from my eyes down lol!

But I think I hate the fact that I'm quite a clingy person, (not good in a ldr lol) I have fears of not being good enough for anyone, and always wanted to prove myself and getting jealous I suppose :-s

[paulawriteslove]

I don't like how I get worried easily! I can always think of something to worry about. =/

[blankita719]

I don't always buy into astrology but I am pretty much a typical Cancer, so my moodiness is the one thing I can't stand...and I know it and feel it coming on. Some days I just have to tell people to ignore me, yes I'll be irritated right then but shortly I'll be just fine

[lisaar910]

I don't like how I get worried easily! I can always think of something to worry about. =/

I'm the same way. I worry about the stupidest stuff sometimes.