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    #16
    I tend to over analyze things alot. For example, I get off the phone and then I replay our convo in my head and wonder if what I said was good enough or start wondering "what he really meant" by what he said. I read too deeply into things. I also can get clingy, I am trying not to be annoying. Its hard though cuz I really miss him and want him here NOW!! I guess you can also add to my list Impatience!!!

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      #17
      I hate the fact that I freak out when even a little bit of stress is added to my routine. It causes me to flip out and be more emotional towards everyone around me. I also hate how paranoid I am of EVERYTHING. From people's reactions to getting a horrible grade on a test, I'm paranoid about everything.

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        #18
        My insecurities about myself. On a good day, I can look in the mirror and see an attractive, curvy in the right places, smart, kind, likable woman. No better or worse than anyone else, and generally happy with who I am.

        On a bad day, all I see are flaws- that my eyes are a touch too small, my thighs are enormous, my belly sticks out too much, or that I'm awkward, uninteresting, not sharp enough to really be someone that other people will be attracted to and want to be around.

        As I get older, I find there are more good days than bad ones. But the bad ones are tough.


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          #19
          Originally posted by Rach321 View Post
          My insecurities about myself. On a good day, I can look in the mirror and see an attractive, curvy in the right places, smart, kind, likable woman. No better or worse than anyone else, and generally happy with who I am.

          On a bad day, all I see are flaws- that my eyes are a touch too small, my thighs are enormous, my belly sticks out too much, or that I'm awkward, uninteresting, not sharp enough to really be someone that other people will be attracted to and want to be around.

          As I get older, I find there are more good days than bad ones. But the bad ones are tough.
          I'm the same way. Idan tells me how beautiful I am and how great I am, but if I am in one of those moods it's really hard to pull me out of it. I just keep on digging a hole deeper for my esteem and then we argue. I also have problems communicating how I feel because I don't want to burden him with smaller complaints I have (though I've gotten better at this).

          In order to help my esteem, however, I'm becoming more active and trying to indulge myself in more intellectual pursuits (finally started picking up a book again!). But it is still there.

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            #20
            I tend to overthink things. And then I get sad. I also dislike my jealousy that randomly pops up.

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              #21
              Originally posted by blankita719 View Post
              I don't always buy into astrology but I am pretty much a typical Cancer, so my moodiness is the one thing I can't stand...and I know it and feel it coming on. Some days I just have to tell people to ignore me, yes I'll be irritated right then but shortly I'll be just fine
              Me too.
              NY to Texas Married on...August 17th, 2013

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                #22
                Okay I have the whole Scorpio dual personality thing, I am very logical and rational, but I am also equally emotional and reactive, so I use to think I was crazy because I would literally argue with myself. Ian changed all of that 12 years ago, because he is an Aquarian and use to talking to himself, so he understood it and now we talk to each other instead and so much more gets resolved, we both seem to have what the other desperately needed.

                Everything I know, and anywhere I go, It gets hard but it won't take away my love,
                And when the last one falls, when it's all said and done, It gets hard but it won't take away my love

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                Me without Him is like Son of Beast without the loop.

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                  #23
                  hate the way I look in any photo, always have, always will. Body perception issues.

                  Everything I know, and anywhere I go, It gets hard but it won't take away my love,
                  And when the last one falls, when it's all said and done, It gets hard but it won't take away my love

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                  Me without Him is like Son of Beast without the loop.

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                    #24
                    id like to seperate my emotions from my work place....which is impossible but its unhealthy as much as get my emotions involved. so i hate that i dont have control over my emotions.

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                      #25
                      My intolerance for fools. I wish I had more patience with some people but I find it's just better to walk away sometimes.

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                        #26
                        Originally posted by Dauntedpoet View Post
                        hate the way I look in any photo, always have, always will. Body perception issues.
                        From what I've seen on your profile, you always look so happy. Don't be so hard on yourself!

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                          #27
                          I have a pretty decent case of OCD that manifests itself in the counting side. I miss out on so much because I'm busy counting the different patterns in the floor or making sure that all of the "15 surfaces" of my hand are touching an object. My brain is easily thinking about 10 issues at once so when I am in a funk I am literally thinking about all of the negatives at the same time and I have no idea how anyone can deal with me in those moods.

                          I also have no filter. Which people find refreshing... for about 30 days. At that point, they've asked me something a "good friend would not have given that answer" to and then it's time for me to find new friends...

                          The first one I can work on. I can continue to practice anxiety techniques other than counting (I refuse to go on medication) but the second one... I mean... I would just rather tell you the truth. If you ask me how something went (this is soooooo an issue in the south where you should never hurt anybody's feelings or be honest with anyone ever) and it was awful and you totally jacked it up and I tell you that it "could have gone better" I DID just spare your feelings. Why did you ask?! *sigh*

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                            #28
                            Trust issues, stubborn, defensiveness, and the list can go on and on, I often think I am a bad person, I'm too hard on myself.

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                              #29
                              Physically, all this flappy stuff. I think they call it fat.

                              I hate my temper. I mean I HATE it. I inherited my father's blind seeing-red-forever, I-swear-I'll-eviscerate-you-verbally temper. That and my sarcasm as lots of people do not register sarcasm (even in person, I know the perils of text sarcasm) and I end up with more enemies than friends. I've literally lost half a dozen friends or more over both.

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