Hi everyone. I'm Meena from London and my SO is in Italy for his career. My first LDR. It's all a bit unclear - no end date in sight - so it's monthly visits and calls for us. I'm an affectionate person and I'm dreading the non-touch, physical separation. He's good at compartmentalising (the lucky guy). I'm basing this LDR on our good Communication, trust and love. I know I should get a life/hobbies/rely on friends in the meantime. Will do. But are there any more tips or practical things that I could do to lessen the physical impact? Is a hug pillow sad? And does anyone suddenly fear the other person will stop communication and fade away, or just call it quits when they get into their new life?? That's another thing running through my mind. Would appreciate your help. In london if you'd like to be friends too.
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