Wishing time away.....

[mattheww65]

Hey guys.

I'm pretty new here but thought I'd start my first thread with something pretty close to my heart...

Do you guys ever find yourself wishing time away to be with your SO?

I do all the time, sitting, standing, running, exercising, working. Any time that I get time to think I tend to be, "god damn time hurry up and pass!".
Then I think about wishing the best years of my life away (I'm at university doing my MSc) and feel bad about it.

Do you guys do it, how do you cope with it and do you think it achieves anything other than making time actually go slower?

[Karringtyn]

Great post! I think so many of us do in fact do that. LDR's are hard.

But I also find myself thinking...I have to do this one day at a time....each day is a gift...so I try to fill each day with good stuff...keeping myself busy and focused on my dreams/our dreams...and doing what needs to be done..

[Silviar]

I do from time to time. As soon as that line of thinking starts, I go find something really interesting to do, like plan a night out, or a weekend somewhere... something that's fun and keeps my mind wrapped on the now.

[Zephii]

I do it all the time, even now I have him every day. It's a curse!

[MTK]

I do that but at the same time i also know that i should try and live my life to the fullest cause i want her to do the same. No sense in not enjoying life, time will pass no matter what and you will be with your SO eventually =)

[elina]

Yeah, I do that too. Should probably enjoy my life more and cherish every day and all that but it just sucks so much being without him and all I really want is to be with him. And yeah.. thinking that time should go faster sure doesn't make it go faster -.-

Bleh..

[Mio]

Totally normal!

[Luisina]

Yeah.. and I feel kinda guilty afterwards.. cause I want to enjoy every moment!
And I know it's hard on my BF when I'm struggling with him not being there, my studies (and my psycho, Russian art teacher ).. he can't really enjoy himself fully if he knows I'm feeling down..

I remember how fast time went when I was traveling, so I know time is gonna pass 20 times quicker for him than me..
Still, we are individuals, and life's too short to waste

[paulawriteslove]

I do this all the time! I want to graduate college so badly as quickly as possible! But I know that these are the best years of my life and I shouldn't rush them. But to me the best years of my life are going to be with the person I'm in love with and I can't have those until I graduate!

[amandamayaaa]

yep, i think many LDR couples do it

the main thing that makes them happy is being with their SO.. so they just countdown until they see their SO again, and that's all they focus on

thats me to a T

i sort of forget about what's going on around me, and just try and think about the next time i see my boyfriend

my boyfriend is moving out here next year, so i just want this year to flyyyy by!.. but of course, it will be the longest year ever!

[Tabitha]

All the time. Multiple times per day.

[Andy]

Yeah I'm constantly thinking of her. I think I have done ever since I met her!

[mattheww65]

I do this all the time! I want to graduate college so badly as quickly as possible! But I know that these are the best years of my life and I shouldn't rush them. But to me the best years of my life are going to be with the person I'm in love with and I can't have those until I graduate!

So agree with that! Its exactly how I feel! Got until next September at uni, then moving out to be with my love for a year in October/November after I've finished.... can't wait for it to come, but it seems so far away!