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    I really need help

    Hello and thank you for reading.


    My girlfriend whom ive lived with for 1.5 years, had to move back to her country because of visa. I visited her in few months ago where everything was fine, we enjoyed each others company and had a very good time. But just about over 1 week ago she changed completely after I said some stupid jealous stuff. She then told me few days ago that we should take a break because she have lost ALL feelings for me. She said she have been trying to gain them back, but was impossible. So right now we are having a break where we dont talk at all, and then we will talk again in a few days to decide what we should do, because I will visit her during the holiday for about 2 weeks.

    She said she wanted to tell me this now, because I shouldnt expect anything when I come visit. She said she had this feeling for 2 months, but everything was fine when we talked for the past few months. We talked about what we will do when I come, and we will cuddle and all sorts. Now suddenly everything changed...

    I really dont know what to do. She say its best for us to pursue our dreams, but I told her that I want to move down to her so we can work our relationship out. She replied "I dont know we will see".

    What should I do? When we talk again I am 99.9% sure that she will break up before I leave to visit her. I really dont wanna go there, if it will be awkward and I cant even kiss or cuddle with her.

    Should I visit her still, to see if she change her mind? Im really completely lost


    Thank you

    #2
    Tough one! If she told you not to expect anything then I’m guessing she’s not wanting anything romantic. Maybe a honest call to her would help, that way you both know exactly what would play our if you went.

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      #3
      We will talk before I leave, if she wants to stay together or give it a chance. But if she tell me she doesnt wanna be together I will tell her I dont wanna come I think. I dont know what to do really. We really loved each others company. Everything came so sudden

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