Hi-
My name is Sue and I don’t know what me and my partner are lol. Long story short... We both are in our 40’s. I’m 47 he’s 43. Will be 44 in November. We used to work for the same place ( education) we dated off and on but got closer this past year- really close like getting more vulnerable and learning about one another. I knew there was a possibility of him leaving as he wanted to get back to his kids and in admin. He moved 2.5 almost 3 hours away- his kids are 20, 17, 16- he’s very close to them. His mom lives an hour away.
In July we discussed kinda what would happen if he left? I broke down and expressed to him that this was more than just “physical” we had a connection and it was strong. He agreed and said I was so important to him and that it was no big deal he would visit.
Well- it’s been since July and we haven’t seen one another. New job, crazy hours, kids on wknds etc. he’s expressed to me that he just doesn’t have time to see me! And I think he’s getting down and losing hope. HELP.
Last night- I noticed I sent some flirty texts and he didn’t engage. I said do you want to do those things with me? His reply: yeah. If I were closer.
Is this the end? I replied that we needed to schedule a weekend, day, night whatever to see each other- of course I got nothing.
I can’t lose him. Please help! Men or women’s comments welcomed
My name is Sue and I don’t know what me and my partner are lol. Long story short... We both are in our 40’s. I’m 47 he’s 43. Will be 44 in November. We used to work for the same place ( education) we dated off and on but got closer this past year- really close like getting more vulnerable and learning about one another. I knew there was a possibility of him leaving as he wanted to get back to his kids and in admin. He moved 2.5 almost 3 hours away- his kids are 20, 17, 16- he’s very close to them. His mom lives an hour away.
In July we discussed kinda what would happen if he left? I broke down and expressed to him that this was more than just “physical” we had a connection and it was strong. He agreed and said I was so important to him and that it was no big deal he would visit.
Well- it’s been since July and we haven’t seen one another. New job, crazy hours, kids on wknds etc. he’s expressed to me that he just doesn’t have time to see me! And I think he’s getting down and losing hope. HELP.
Last night- I noticed I sent some flirty texts and he didn’t engage. I said do you want to do those things with me? His reply: yeah. If I were closer.
Is this the end? I replied that we needed to schedule a weekend, day, night whatever to see each other- of course I got nothing.
I can’t lose him. Please help! Men or women’s comments welcomed
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