Hi guys, I really need your advice.
I've been in a ldr for 2 months so far.
Recently I had an argument with my boyfriend because he avoided my questions for a couple of days. (Long story, I was worried about him because he took the covid test).
I let my emotions take control of me because I was afraid he ghosted me, so I accused him (in a gentle way) he wanted to break up.
I know I should had put more trust...I immediately apologized and he forgave me.
But after that day he became distant.
I gave him space for one week without contact him, but that didn't help because since that day he doesn't initiate the conversation anymore and if I ask him if everything is okay he just avoid the question. It's like talking to a wall.
Few days ago I explained him that we both have to put an effort and trying to improve the communication, so he proposed me to have a videocall the next day.
I accepted but he avoided me. Two times.
This morning he reply me and told me his mobile phone broke down. He didn't even apologies.
I was disappointed... I told him to reach me out when he want and I wouldn't take the iniziative to text him anymore from now on.
He didn't even reply.
At this point I think he just want to break up. What do you think?
Sorry for the Long text. I tried to explain at my best what happened
Thank you in advance
I've been in a ldr for 2 months so far.
Recently I had an argument with my boyfriend because he avoided my questions for a couple of days. (Long story, I was worried about him because he took the covid test).
I let my emotions take control of me because I was afraid he ghosted me, so I accused him (in a gentle way) he wanted to break up.
I know I should had put more trust...I immediately apologized and he forgave me.
But after that day he became distant.
I gave him space for one week without contact him, but that didn't help because since that day he doesn't initiate the conversation anymore and if I ask him if everything is okay he just avoid the question. It's like talking to a wall.
Few days ago I explained him that we both have to put an effort and trying to improve the communication, so he proposed me to have a videocall the next day.
I accepted but he avoided me. Two times.
This morning he reply me and told me his mobile phone broke down. He didn't even apologies.
I was disappointed... I told him to reach me out when he want and I wouldn't take the iniziative to text him anymore from now on.
He didn't even reply.
At this point I think he just want to break up. What do you think?
Sorry for the Long text. I tried to explain at my best what happened
Thank you in advance
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