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    Boyfriend cold after an argument

    Hi guys, I really need your advice.

    I've been in a ldr for 2 months so far.
    Recently I had an argument with my boyfriend because he avoided my questions for a couple of days. (Long story, I was worried about him because he took the covid test).
    I let my emotions take control of me because I was afraid he ghosted me, so I accused him (in a gentle way) he wanted to break up.
    I know I should had put more trust...I immediately apologized and he forgave me.
    But after that day he became distant.
    I gave him space for one week without contact him, but that didn't help because since that day he doesn't initiate the conversation anymore and if I ask him if everything is okay he just avoid the question. It's like talking to a wall.
    Few days ago I explained him that we both have to put an effort and trying to improve the communication, so he proposed me to have a videocall the next day.
    I accepted but he avoided me. Two times.
    This morning he reply me and told me his mobile phone broke down. He didn't even apologies.
    I was disappointed... I told him to reach me out when he want and I wouldn't take the iniziative to text him anymore from now on.
    He didn't even reply.

    At this point I think he just want to break up. What do you think?

    Sorry for the Long text. I tried to explain at my best what happened
    Thank you in advance

    #2
    Hi and welcome,
    Sounds like things aren’t going really well. I guess you need closure but it will require you initiating conversation to ask him if it’s over or not.

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      #3
      Hi Kira98,

      That sounds pretty upsetting for you. I'm sorry you are going through this. It sounds like you have done everything you can and have been quite reasonable in the process. I agree with Redheart, that it would be nice to have some closure or sense of understanding, but there isn't much you can do at this point. Try to focus on your own things, and if he hasn't reached out in another week, you could send him a goodbye message. If he doesn't respond to that then he isn't worth having as a boyfriend. Best of luck to you.
      "The pain of parting is nothing to the joy of meeting again".
      -Charles Dickens

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