I always feel so out of limbo whenever my boyfriend leaves after visiting. I don't really know what to do with myself after he leaves. I'm just curious what you do to cope after your partner leaves from a visiting? Or visa versa.
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That’s a really good question. I did LDR for about 5 years with visits about a month apart. The last day or 2 of the visit, I would get really depressed and the first day or so I got back, I would still be really sad. We closed the distance and were together for about a year but then he left again for another job 😭 this was 3 months ago and we’re hoping to close the distance again very soon (permanently) but I told him until then, I couldn’t do any more visits because they were so emotionally taxing 😥 I’m sorry I don’t really have any good advice but I just want to let you know that I understand how hard it is and that you are not alone. -
It honestly just takes time, almost like grieving after a death. I try to go easy on myself and not force myself to be too productive or anything for a while, just keep going to work and stuff and try to do things I enjoy, like reading and walking. There's no quick fix. Definitely try to call and facetime as much as possible.ChifuyuComment
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I guess it really depends on the distance and duration of the visit. For me, we meet/met (well...you know with the world) every month so it wasn't too bad. My advice would be that it is ok to be sad. If possible, plan the next visit so you know you will mee. Have something fun prepared back home so you have something fun looking forward to.Comment
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