maybe a secret?....

[ChrisIsCallisto]

so
after my parents decided that thay were going to put a stop on my cristmas visit for litteraly, no reason at all, ive been thinking of ways of getting over to canada to be my SO.
i was speeking to one of her friends about going to visit sometime when i had an idea, a secret visit.

so, as alot of you who are from canada know prom is quite a big deal, much more than what is over hear in england. and well, im planning to go over there for a few days, get there a dayish before her prom and then supprise her at her prom.
i know this is quite expencive for just a few days but im visiting 2 times next year hopefully anyway (this would be replacing me going over there for our one year, so its a tough choice) so i should be able to afford it (yn)

im just wondering what you would do if your SO suprised you like that? :P

[LadyMarchHare]

I would imagine your parents have a reason, they just may not be sharing it. Some people do that. With jet lag I'd go for two days prior to the prom, to catch up on sleep and stuff.

Anyway, if my SO cropped up one day I think I'd have a heart attack and do everything to keep him out my house. It's... not clean. Which is dumb because I'm OCD but whatever. Me being the dumb one I am I'd be mad because I'm really not one for spontaneity and I like things planned at least vaguely as far as arrangements, activities, so on. It'd be a sweet gesture, but I'd flip.

[Mio]

I love surprises, so if it was me, I would be sooooo happy!

[Moon]

If you decide to do this, don't keep it TOO much of a secret! For prom, at least in the US, your SO has to buy tickets which are usually pretty expensive, and you'll usually need a tuxedo or a very, very nice suit. You should plan this with her, I think, just because it'll be really hard to get it all together on a days notice.

[Zephii]

I always secretly hoped Obi would surprise me... but it just never happenened. I did manage a surprise visit for him once, and though he was happy to see me, he was unhappy with me wasting my money on such a short trip (20 days). So it really depends what your SO is like. Some people react well to surprises, others don't, and some are too practical for their own good.

[paulawriteslove]

My boyfriend surprised me once. He drove 29 hours straight to come see me for the first time I was so happy

[xMesmerize124]

I absolutely hate surprises haha
I have to know what's going on at all times, but if my bf did so happen to surprise me i would very much be happy to see him but really wished he warned me ahead of time

[Karringtyn]

My fiance' came a day early...and that was the day he proposed to me! I LOVE surprises!

[ChrisIsCallisto]

i personaly think shed realy like it, but i was just wondering how others would react :P as for the tickets and stuff as i said it all came about while i was talking to one of her friends, and she said shed help me as much as she can with it all if i needed, she even said i could stay at herd before the prom if i needed to :P so i dont see that being TOO much of a problem. and i already brought my own suit for my own prom, so thats coverd too :P

[Zephii]

Looks like you've got a good plan then! It shall be awesome and so very romantic! *squee*

.. ok that was girly. >.> I'm going to go fart and drink beer to make up for that. heh.

[ChrisIsCallisto]

aha :L
her friend reacted the same way when i had the idea :')

dont forget to watch some sort of manly tv program too! :P

[princessmia]

I would literally LOVE to be surprised. That'd be amazing..if he just randomly showed up at my door and I had no idea whatsoever.
Your plan sounds good btw. =]

[amandamayaaa]

i would loveee a surprise like that! girls always love surprises, and you can almost never go wrong with them! i say go for it

[Darth_Taco]

I'm just gonna be blunt and say it, this is a really bad idea. Do your parents know you want to go to Canada alone? If I remember correctly, you're only 15 meaning you can't enter the country without their permission. Then there's the whole prom thing. School dances are pretty strict, and she's going to need to know you're going or else they won't let you in. Trust me, schools don't see their tickets at the door, she needs to buy them a least a week in advance. Then there's also the fact that since you don't attend school with her, her school is going to have to contact yours to make sure you're real (you going up to the school isn't enough, they need to verify you're a student). Then there's the fact that you're coming from an entirely different continent. Most schools won't allow someone who isn't a resident of Canada go to a school dance. She's going to have to call the school to make sure what are the guidelines of taking you to prom.

In other words, you can't do this by surprise. You're a minor, and trying to go to her school dance so she needs to clear everything with both your schools. Just tell her upfront what you're planning, and tell your parents. Then you gotta pay extra to not have a layover in the United States. Our security systems are ridiculous right now because of the increased terror alert recently so you can get automatically deported if you don't do things right and without the right visas.

[loveonspeedial]

I pretty much melt whenever my SO suprises me she just came to see me at work the other day and I ran across my job and tackled her and I almost started crying =]