30+ This trip has been horrible ....I CAN'T WAIT TO GO HOME!!!!

[Jmoc1024]

I got here Wednesday and today is Friday. I have spent a total of maybe 3 hours with my SO. So yes I can't wait to get home because I would of been better off just staying home. And all these three hours where just on Thursday. Meanwhile all the three hours he was here he spent most of his time on the phone texting or talking to someone who I don't know and I don't care obviously me coming was not important. So yeah today is Friday it is 4:15pm my time and still haven't seen him and the only thing I get is a text asking what am I doing. So yeah I guess you can say this trip was not even worth it and this relationship is gone to shit!!!!

[kittyo9]

Sorry to hear

[kattermole]

Oh no It's really very unfair of him to spend so little time with you when you have spent time and money coming to see him. What's his excuse for not seeing you?

[dragonlady]

what a piece of @@#$# sorry to hear the he is not wurthy for you

[Sanja]

Sorry to hear that but maybe you needed to make this trip to find out he isn't what you deserve!

[libelle]

Such an asshole....!! Demand explanation from him, he owes it to you! >

[Moon]

I'm sorry I agree with Sanja though, maybe this is what you needed to find out what a jerk he is. What he's doing to you is completely unacceptable. Can you change your ticket, and just leave?

[Schlafmütze]

I'm really sorry this is happening. What a jerk!
But yeah, I agree with Sonja and Moon. Unfortunately, there are things we learn the hard way. Perhaps it's time for you to let go, you are better off without him.

[Benni]

Wow, that sucks big time!! I would be so pissed I'd have to say something to him -- unappreciative asshole!!!

[rawrimolivia]

Wow what an ass! Why is he been so separated? I would get a flight change.

[Jmoc1024]

he said that it has just been hectic at work with testing and everything and that he had to go to his son's baseball game. I can't change my flight I leave tomorrow but I just wish I was home. I hate feeling like this was just a waste of my time and effort. How can you spend only a couple of hours with someone who has made the sacrifice to come see you and be with you? I can understand work but really on the phone? And you couldn't give up one game? I haven't stopped crying this really sucks!!! I just want to be home already!!! It's noticeable I am not a priority to him and that I am more dedicated to this then he is. I should of listened to everyone when they told me that getting into this relationship was a bad idea. It's not like I just popped up, he has been knowing that I was coming to visit since the beginning of the month. So he had time to make time for me. I just want to go home and I want this feeling to go away.

[rawrimolivia]

he said that it has just been hectic at work with testing and everything and that he had to go to his son's baseball game. I can't change my flight I leave tomorrow but I just wish I was home. I hate feeling like this was just a waste of my time and effort. How can you spend only a couple of hours with someone who has made the sacrifice to come see you and be with you? I can understand work but really on the phone? And you couldn't give up one game? I haven't stopped crying this really sucks!!! I just want to be home already!!! It's noticeable I am not a priority to him and that I am more dedicated to this then he is. I should of listened to everyone when they told me that getting into this relationship was a bad idea. It's not like I just popped up, he has been knowing that I was coming to visit since the beginning of the month. So he had time to make time for me. I just want to go home and I want this feeling to go away.

I'm really sorry ): That's just not fair to you at all. I understand the whole work situation because work gets really hectic for me, but if my SO is visiting, I ALWAYS try and make time for him and 3 hours isn't acceptable. Please have a safe trip home. Either he really needs to do something to make that up to you, or maybe you should leave. You need to do what makes you happy, and obviously he's not doing that. :\

[LadyDaemon]

I'm really sorry he's been a jerk to you like this. You deserve time and attention from him no matter what is going on. If he was going to be so busy and neglect to spend time with you then he should've been man enough to ask you to make the trip another time. You sacrificed your time and money to go see him the least he could've done was put aside some things and give you the common courtesy,decency and respect enough to spend more then 3 hours with you. I think once you go home this would be the time to sit and really think about whether or not you want to stay or go,especially if he's treating you this way and not making you happy. Good luck hon I hope you figure everything out.

[arrah5]

That really stinks! I would be furious. I hope you can get out and see the sights a bit before you head home and try to make something of your trip. I wonder why he's being such a jerk? Stay strong, and be safe.

[JoeyBug]

That sucks, I'm sorry this has happened. As someone else has said, is there any way you can change your ticket home? And leave earlier?