30+ so tired of this.

[blackframez]

Never thought this ldr would go on for 6 months... a year... now a year and a half. Financial security being the issue on his end... yet, we end up spending over a months rent (over 1k combined) every 4-6 weeks on visits.

I miss being with someone every day. I want it to be him. It seems like a fantasy never to come true. I imagine breaking up with him every other day and tell myself it would be a huge mistake because he is wonderful. Yet if I did my daily life and emotional life would probably remain the same. And yet time passes and I am still alone, aging, unmarried, and childless. This sucks.

[Kiyama]

Is the distance the only reason you are considering to break up or are there other issues?
How long until you can close the distance?

[Mims27]

LDR defintely isn't for everyone. *hugs*
My SO and I have been together for 3.5 years now (and we still aren't sure when we will close the distance) and I go through moments where I'm like "fuck this is getting long". But then I tell myself it's worth it. She is worth it. I kinda want to tell you to hang in there, but that's really up to you.

[Benni]

There's no possibility of moving closer to each other? I know finances can be rough on every one but sometimes you just have to make a sacrifice if you really want to be together.