Newbie to Group and to LDR's

[alizee]

Thank you for the well wishes! I would say if you feel like your not getting enough effort from him, make your expectations known. When my guy and I began talking he wasn't exactly the talkative type nor did he initiative conversations. I had to tell him that in order for this to work I would need daily chats as well as messages. He said he understood and we have talked daily if not multiple times a day since. We both work full time and have other activities but as I told him- people make time for what they want.

Try to talk to him and let him know what you want. If he is truly into you, he should want to give you whatever you require.

You are right! I will talk to him, but I can*t now (for about 2 weeks), because he told me that he has some work to do on his house. In fact, he told me last night that he had a terrible weekend working and preparing everything for the renovation to start. He told me that he will have 2 busy weeks - with his own job and with the house renovation at the same time, so it will be selfish of me to talk to him about my communication needs. I NOW UNDERSTAND the fact that he will be so busy these 2 weeks and maybe we will communicate less. It*s fine by me now, because I know how stressing house renovations can be!!!!
Or maybe I will wait and see what our first face-to-face meeting will bring (I can*t wait for that to happen and I feel excitement/ fear at the same time!!!) and we will discuss this communication problem (which can be a problem from only my point of view) and hopefully we will try to create a deeper way of communicating and thus we will deepen our relationship, because I feel communication it*s the most important part of a love relationship.

[MZVIRGO82]

Hi sorry about the late response-I agree 100% communication is key! Do you think you can wait to have that conversation during your first face-to-face? If so, I would probably wait as well. I will say the excitement/nervousness of the first visit is such a wonderful feeling that I hope never goes away. I saw my guy for the first time this past weekend and it was AMAZING!!! It was the perfect weekend and we also had a few conversations that led us to becoming an official couple!!!! I'm so excited to see where things will go between us and am really REALLY looking forward to our next visit that is happening in three weeks!

I hope it all works out for you!

[alizee]

Hi sorry about the late response-I agree 100% communication is key! Do you think you can wait to have that conversation during your first face-to-face? If so, I would probably wait as well. I will say the excitement/nervousness of the first visit is such a wonderful feeling that I hope never goes away. I saw my guy for the first time this past weekend and it was AMAZING!!! It was the perfect weekend and we also had a few conversations that led us to becoming an official couple!!!! I'm so excited to see where things will go between us and am really REALLY looking forward to our next visit that is happening in three weeks!

I hope it all works out for you!

I am so happy for you!!!! You showed me it is possible to have a great love out from an LDR. I am happy that you two liked each other even more when you saw each other face to face, in fact the connection was made even before, so the face to face meeting was just the icing on the cake!!!!!!!! Hope it will be the same for me, because both him and me deserve to have that beautiful love in our lives.
Yes, I think I will wait untill we meet. I called him last night and he was busy with his renovation team work (he has a team of workers there) and I just told him to have a good night and that we will talk the next day. I understand that renovation on the house is a very stressing thing, so I told him I didn*t want to bother him. As I told you, it would be selfish from my part if I talked NOW with him about my communication needs. Plus, I feel him a person who*s not so much of a phone talker and I guess we will just have to see how it all goes when we meet face to face. Hopefully things will go deeper between us and the connection will increase on its own.