I'm so sorry to hear this happened. Hugs!
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Break ups are always though. I support OperaDiva, I think it's time for you and to keep your head busy in things that you enjoy but you never do because you don't have time or any other reason. If not you can always try something new, like dancing lessons or learn a new language! Who tells you that in this classes you are not going to find the one for you? So, chin up! He doesn't deserves your tears, and everything always happen for a reason.
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It is understandable that you want to know all the "why"s and "how"s, and maybe you will fill in those gaps some day. But at the end of the day what has happend is that you got your feelings hurt, and perhaps a bit of a shock as well. It is probably not helpful to think that you might see things in a different light, get another boyfriend etc. And guys are really not that different when their heart is broken - they just tend to drink a lot instead of talking to thei friends about it, because guys are not to good with their friends' vounerability
You feel what you feel, which is pain. Take a long warm bath in you pain, and eventually you might be transformed by it. Like others have said, keep yourself busy. Even if you feel like you cry inside when you go out with friends, it can still help you because you can "fake it until you make it". Who knows why your guy and this girl got together, and if it will last? He is no longer your man, so you don't need to worry for his welfare. That is one plus at least! Soon you might be curious as to what might happen in your own life. For now it is ok to feel sad and upset, "this too will pass".
I made love to him only twice, she thought and looked at the man laying asleep beside her. And yet still it is as if we have been together forever, as if he has always known my life, my soul, my body, my light, my pain
- Paulo Coelho, "Eleven minutes"
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I'm so sorry you have to go through this
I went through something similar with my ex, and I know how hard it is.
Just one advice from me - when he broke up with me, I was absolutely down, felt so lonely, and my way to beat this loneliness was to find another man, so I kinda chased this one guy I liked and was rejected by him, so I felt even more miserable. Please don't do the same thing as me, take your time, take care of yourself and yourself only, keep yourself busy, find some new friends, hobbies
And remember, he isn't worth your pain! I hope you'll be OK soon.Comment
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