30+ An "I need Him" Day

[DawnHunter]

I'm not quite 30, but he's 19 years my senior, so I'm going to put this here anyway. Hope nobody minds.

I find myself having days where all I want to do is curl up in my recliner and talk to Him. I'm sure I don't have to explain who He is. He is my happiness, who makes my heart jump when he logs onto instant messenger, or sends me a text message, or - on the rare occasions - calls me. He is the reason that I cry because - gorram it - 1000 miles is too far to go when you've no place to stay overnight, let alone a few days to make it worth it. He is the one that, when I don't hear from Him and know the weather is bad, I worry.

And some days, I just want Him.

Stupid work

Pardon me while I use my cats as a tissue.

[Petals]

Yeah, I know those days...we all do I know no distance is small enough to be away from the one you love, but be happy you are only 1000 miles apart Hang in there ((hugs)).

[differentcountries]

I hope your day feels nice (sometimes crying helps) and that you find some way to visit

[AnnMarie Green]

Aaahh, yesss... We ALL go through these blues.. It doesnt matter if you are 167 miles apart,(like me and my husband), or 1000, or 5000... (Btw, we have an age gap as well, he is 16 years my junior, lolz..) Deny as we might, there eventually is a physical need, even if just to hold one another or hold hands n kissey face.. Usually, he and I see each other about once a month, this will be the longest at two months, but it does not change the fact that everyday, I wish we were together.. I try hard to keep busy most of the day with other things so Im not thinking about our situation as much.. All of these beautiful people including you have made things a lot easier.. Its alot less frustrating when you can see other people are sharing the same type situations at all different levels.. Everyday is an I need him day!! And I will say eventually, if your relationship grows, you will be ready to WALK that thousand miles if you have to!! It will be worth it, even if its only one day!! Good luck and blessings..

[TaraMarie]

I'm not quite 30, but he's 19 years my senior, so I'm going to put this here anyway. Hope nobody minds.

I find myself having days where all I want to do is curl up in my recliner and talk to Him. I'm sure I don't have to explain who He is. He is my happiness, who makes my heart jump when he logs onto instant messenger, or sends me a text message, or - on the rare occasions - calls me. He is the reason that I cry because - gorram it - 1000 miles is too far to go when you've no place to stay overnight, let alone a few days to make it worth it. He is the one that, when I don't hear from Him and know the weather is bad, I worry.

And some days, I just want Him.

Stupid work

Pardon me while I use my cats as a tissue.

Nobody minds the age difference. My ex husband is 22 yrs older than me, and we were together for thirty years. My fiancé is 10 years younger. Age is just a number. But we all have "those" days. I had one yesterday.... Any distance is too far when you miss someone.

[FloridaLovesChicago]

We all have those days! Mine usually end up with me on the phone with him pouting like a baby saying something like "baaaaaaaaaabbbbbbbeeeeee I miss you. Come snuggle me." (I'm glad I dont have to date me lol) Just keep yourself busy. That's the only thing that helps me, usually. But I have a 6 year old so I'm pretty busy anyway lol

[Guevanak81]

Oh, i am very familiar with this! I get to see my so at least once a month and i often go through what i refer to as periods of withdrawl from him. And this happens although we speak to each other every day and night (except weekends). What really helps me is snuggling with one of his tshirts and smelling his scent. It makes me feel as if i am laying on his chest. Also, video chatting helps tremendously and keeping a regular schedule of when you can chat or video chat. That way you always have that regular time together each day to look forward to seeing him or talking to him and you can live your life doing other things in the mean time. Hope this helped, and good luck... It will get better!