Fights...

[Èternity]

Most relationships have disagreements from time to time. What do you fight about in your LDR?

[xMesmerize124]

The last thing my bf and i fought and still fighting was about how i am being ungrateful and rude. It all started because i was complaining about how he doesn't text me or call me enough anymore then he just snapped and starting yelling at me about how selfish i am, rude, and blah blah. Big mess, such an annoying fight

[michy]

The last thing my bf and i fought and still fighting was about how i am being ungrateful and rude. It all started because i was complaining about how he doesn't text me or call me enough anymore then he just snapped and starting yelling at me about how selfish i am, rude, and blah blah. Big mess, such an annoying fight

Aw, sorry Sometimes it can be hard to strike a balance that makes both happy... when you don't want to say "call me this often" because then it would feel forced, but you don't want to feel neglected either! And those calls/texts count for so much in an LDR- much of the time, they're all we have! You guys will work it out soon

The only time we fought (more like just me getting upset, lol) was because of a misunderstanding over the context of an email, which was worked out as soon as we got out of email land and onto the phone.

It's not anything we actually fight/argue over, but there's been a little bit of distress once or twice because I'm a Tazmanian-Devil tornado of emotion and I show it ALL on the surface, whereas he's pretty much always outwardly cool and calm and collected. Sometimes it makes me feel a little bit like he might not care as much as I care about him- and I bring it up, and we talk and then I remember that he just doesn't show emotion like that (something I'm still getting used to) and that there about 100 other ways he shows me that he loves me

[Caitlin2009]

most of our arguments are never that major, we have them and then they are swept under the rug and forgotton about

[NikkiP]

No real arguments yet here. We've had a few times where I've misunderstood but he always clears them up for me as soon as I'm able to share with him how something actually made me feel.

[Laura024]

We don't fight often, but when we do the arguments revolve around misunderstandings. Once we both clarify what we mean, things are resolved quickly.

[paulawriteslove]

We have disagreements about how much attention he gives me. Sometimes he's with his friends and completely forgets I exsist because he goes in his on world and then will finally text me later. It's nothing big, but yea.

[Talent_2]

no arguments as yet *touch wood* but a few disagreements over my jealousness which im working on

[LadyMarchHare]

The last 'fight' we had was when he up and disappeared on me for 3 weeks and I couldn't get even a text reply so I went nuts thinking I'd done something wrong or he was dead, etc. My ex bestie made me believe I was entitled to yelling at him and accusing him of a million things when in truth he'd been out of town and depressed/angry because he was at home with his sick and ungrateful mother. He forgave me, but I felt like an ass and still do.

There was one other time, months ago, he thought I cut myself after I had promised not to anymore and read me the riot act before I had to take pics of my wrists to prove I hadn't done anything. He told me if I had, he wouldn't have talked to me for a week.

[archangel]

Guilty....
Me and my SO both feel terrible when we do have a flight/argument/disagreement. Which usually in the end results in one or both of us crying because it hurts so much. But even out all that, we are able to make up, make amends and plan a way to make sure we won't fight about that topic again. For the most part it has worked... yay! which has shown both of us, that we can handle our Soul mate even when they are feeling terrible.

As for what we have fought over...

• Love and how much we love each other
• Trust
• Some miss understandings (miss interpreting each others emails)
• some topics we plan on talking about.

There might be one or two more, but for the most part we have been there and came back never to fight over them again.

As much as I would like to say fights will never happen... they will and are. Just the better off you and your SO can handle them will determine how strong you both really are. Just one other thing, if something is bothering you.. or something that your SO is doing is bothering you... tell them! Don't let it boil within you... since when you do eventually explode you'll hurt them more than you though.

[Micah]

We haven't fought yet, and I hope it continues! We have only been together about 4 months, though.

[agentholli]

are arugments are about when he will come out for a visit

[SLLVÈR]

No fighting allowed....we are a fight free couple...we talk about everything, and since we really see eye to eye on most things it works out so well. Plus, if there is something that the other doesn't understand, or misunderstand we talk about it right then. THEN....really all anyone should do if you feel a fight is...

LISTEN TO DAFT PUNK...DIGITAL LOVE is a great one or SOMETHING ABOUT US then really how can you be mad. Great songs...perfect if you have seen the movie and listen to the songs

[DinaAndMehmet]

On a normal basis, i really do start problems because of attention. I am sure alot of girls have the same problem i do with their SO. like not texting enough no emails, or spending WAY to much time with their friends. that has been a major issue since the LDR started. We are working through it. i know he really does care about me and love me but never likes to show it with little things that i enjoy.

But the major fight we had was just awful.
ill give u guys a brief history-- So he worked with these Romanian girls back almost two years ago. He kept in touch with them after they had left back to romania. which was totally fine with me. UNTIL i really understood their "friendship relationship" i mean they would say things like husband kissing you sleeping in ur bed things like that which really truly disgusted me. and he had told me he had stopped talkin to them, just through facebook random messages, which is alright. but then he lied to me and i found this out. (if he had come to me maybe and apologizing and truly being sorry and honest it would have not been as bad) i guess he was talking to one of those girls and he asked her to open her camera ( i really dont like to think what was going on) and he opened up his and the reason for this was because he said "he was bored" and i went crazy. like a mad women. Maybe i can be the jealous type but this crossed the line. Not only did he ask her to open camera she is the same person he said i wanna sleep in ur bed. i really cussed his life out and i didnt want to talk to him anymore....i dono that was a really a low point for us it really bothers me to talk about it there is more to the story but we did make up in the end
lol sorry about making this so long

[Veronica]

In my case we have two major recurrent fights: His smoking! (when we started dating i made sure he knew i could only be with him if he..someday..quit, so no surprise there!) he still hasnt..and i know its hard, but every now and then i get really upset and start a fight about it, we are still working on this. And my addiction to tattoos.. he haaates it..but i cant help it, i just love it so much, always did..i got my last one last year and promised to stop, i really dont wanna fight about something so silly anymore