Break Up.

[junnah]

be strong girl. I am sure you will find a good man (your Mr. Right) that will respect you and love you unconditionaly forever.

[Riyko]

I'm so sorry that happened and I see things the same way you do, even cybering to me is cheating. I wish you the best with everything and I hope that maybe in the future you will decide to return and give advice (I left after I broke up with my ex and I came back)

[elina]

I'm so sorry to hear that.. I would've done the same, I'd consider cybering cheating as well. It's a good thing you found out, even though it might not feel like it right now.

I wish you all the strength you need to get over this and start a new life, it'll take time but you'll be fine sweetheart *lots of hugs*

[So_Far_Away]

He wants me back. Went round last night to swap stuff over and we talked for about 2 hours although I swear it felt like years. He ended up crying and practicallly begging.

I don't know what to do now. I've told him I'll see him next Friday and tell him what I decide then - it gives us both a definitive time and me plenty of time to think things through and figure out if I miss him or the relationship and if I can ever trust him again. I fogive him, and I've told him that and I really mean it - I do forgive him but that doesn't mean I can trust him like I did last week...

[Rach321]

It sounds like you are handling it the best you can. I consider cybering cheating as well, so it would be very hard for me to trust my SO again, but I can't say that I would definitely call things off for good. I'm glad you were able to forgive him- that's important for your own well-being regardless if you get back together or not.

I wish you the best! Really listen and follow your heart. It should help you make a decision one way or another.

[mattheww65]

Sorry to hear that hun. Its really wrong for him to do that, like REALLY wrong. It cant even be classed under the same banner as just having a 'drunken one night stand' which is bad enough, but it actually takes some sort of emotional connection to have cyber-sex... especially over a few months... That hurts.

If you do take him back properly, you really need to make sure he knows if he does that again he'll be out the door so quick his feet wont touch the ground......