Well, It Was Short....

[mustangapril]

Sorry my time here was so short. After 10 months, we are apparently done. = (

A few months ago I had asked him about someone and who they were. He didn't outright tell me who she was and just told me "don't worry about it." Well, I didn't like that answer and thought he was lying to me (just like every other man out there) so, I emailed the girl asking. She told him. why? no clue. But, he got pissed. He had to deal with his exwife being sneaky and asking him all sorts of things so he told himself he wouldn't put up with it in any other future relationships. He said it's been hard for him not to call, email or chat with me but he has to stop the relationship. He says there's nothing that can be done.

I feel horrible. I didn't mean to be one of those women who sneaks around whatsoever! That's not who I am. But, he's not giving me another chance.

It doesn't help that I'm really sick today either. I feel so numb. We went to wanting to get married in the future to this.....all because I didn't trust him. The only thing I want to do is pack up all my stuff and move back up north = ( but, I can't do that right now for many reasons.

Thank you to all who welcomed me and helped me. I'm assuming I won't be back since it's 100% over = (

[princessmia]

Aww, I'm so sorry to hear this.
Just remember, it will eventually get better. One day soon, you'll see the light at the end of the tunnel again.
We will miss you.
Hope the best!

[Heather]

Aww I wish you the best ♥♥ stay strong and try to be positive, I know how hard it is, but in the end it will all be okay. Thinking of you! *hugs*

[agentholli]

Awww i am so sorry I really do wish you the best of luck. You don't have to leave here though..if you don't want to.

(hugs)

[paulawriteslove]

I am so sorry to hear this. Stay strong!

[mustangapril]

Thank you.....

[Riyko]

wow i'm sorry =( *hugs* it will get better with time and you are always welcome to stay and chat with all of us who are in relationships and who are single (ME!)

[mllebamako]

So sorry to hear this

Be kind to yourself. It'll get better.

[Èternity]

Very sorry to hear. I hope you feel better soon. It must be a tough time for you.

[Silviar]

One thing stuck out at me - I think it sounds like he's lacking in trust, too. If he can't trust you enough to tell you who someone is, dear, then he's just at fault. It sounds like he still has some issues to work through given his ex.

I'm sorry this resulted in a break-up. I hope wherever life takes you, it's a good path. Cheers.

[raiblade3]

One thing stuck out at me - I think it sounds like he's lacking in trust, too. If he can't trust you enough to tell you who someone is, dear, then he's just at fault. It sounds like he still has some issues to work through given his ex.

I'm sorry this resulted in a break-up. I hope wherever life takes you, it's a good path. Cheers.

i agree :/ im sorry it worked out that way... *hugs tight*

[LostInLove]

That really sucks, I'll be sending you good thoughts today. *hugs*

[noodle]

I'm so sorry to hear that!
But I agree with Silviar. I also kinda find it weird that he didnt even talk to you about it and tried to figure it out and just basically cut it off cause he didnt want another sneaky woman on his side? That's a lil weird to me...
Not all woman are the same and not all men are they same (even if it seems like it).
If he told you who she was etc you wouldnt have worried and emailed her, right? I mean I would do the same as you did.
Im sorry if I sound negative and make him look like the bad one but that's just my opinion.
Keep your head up tho! The one is still out there somewhere tryin to make his way through to you <3

[Elissa]

I'm sorry We're here for you if you need help

[mustangapril]

I'm so sorry to hear that!
But I agree with Silviar. I also kinda find it weird that he didnt even talk to you about it and tried to figure it out and just basically cut it off cause he didnt want another sneaky woman on his side? That's a lil weird to me...
Not all woman are the same and not all men are they same (even if it seems like it).
If he told you who she was etc you wouldnt have worried and emailed her, right? I mean I would do the same as you did.
Im sorry if I sound negative and make him look like the bad one but that's just my opinion.
Keep your head up tho! The one is still out there somewhere tryin to make his way through to you <3

I see what you are saying.... He did end up emailing me after I emailed her asking how she knew him. After reading a paragraph and a half he ended up telling me who she was...