Your SOs parents

[ChrisxTosha]

How do you feel about your SOs parents?
I like them well enough.


Do you love them or not really care for them?
I care for them, they're part of my Love's life too. They're interesting people. Fun to talk to, although I get the vibe his father isn't particularly approving of he and I's distance and that we want to get married before living together.

Do they make you feel like part of the family?
Umm, right now, I'm not sure. I haven't really spent much time around them. I mean, they chat and joke with me when we're around each other. But as for "part of the family", I'm not sure we're there yet.

[milaya]

How do you feel about your SOs parents?
I met my SO's parents, before I met him. Because I was doing a homestay in Japan (staying in a Japanese family's house) and then I was staying in his parents house. Which guess that gives a bit of a different view on them. Overall I had a good feeling of them from the beginning, especially his mother. She's the type of person, who smiles even when life is against her. (she has serious cancer) The image of his father changed over time though. First I liked him, but then he probably sensed something between my SO and I and did his best on making sure we didn't spend too much time together alone. Like we were kids. Later on my SO also told me about his upbringing and how extremely strict his father was (especially with discipline), which also has changed my opinion.

Do you love them or not really care for them?
I really have warm feelings for his mother.

Do they make you feel like part of the family?
Tough question, since I've not met them since my SO and I started officially dating. They don't seem to have a problem with me at least. His mom often writes "Say hallo to Isa" in the end of an e-mail - if she writes him one while he's here. His father has asked my SO if we're planning to get married or if him and me get children, in which country would we live. So guess I'm accepted, guess it also helps that they've met me.

[Bluestars]

I really like my SO's parents! His mom was a little bit iffy about our relationship at first, but after we met she was nothing but kind. I have stayed at both of their homes and they have made me feel nothing but welcome His dad is really nice to me, and that means a lot since my dad and I have a bad past (although we do seem to be doing better now, which is good). His dad has bought multiple plane tickets for us to visit one another. He invited me to go to Jared's graduation as a surprise present and paid for my ticket then. He tells me that I am like a daughter to him and that I am welcome to visit him whenever I want, but I have never taken him up on the offer though because I thought it might be awkward without my SO though (his dad lives only an hour away from me).

[Stephanieeee]

How do you feel about your SOs parents?
his mom is absolutely wonderful about everything. she is completely supportive and easy to talk to. im pretty lucky that he ended up with a cool mom.

Do you love them or not really care for them?
love.

Do they make you feel like part of the family?
i haven't even been there yet and i already feel like apart of their family <3

11 days

[Emma-Louise]

How do you feel about your SOs parents?
I love them. They're so nice to me, and if my bf leaves the room, they don't just stare at me like I've 3 heads, they sit and chat, ask me things about my life, and my family. It's comforting to know that they may possibly like me. And Glen says all the time that they do ask how I am, or what's been going on when we're on webcam, or texting or whatever. It's just, it's lovely.

Do you love them or not really care for them?
Yes, I definitely love them. And his brother, although wasn't too nice to me in the beginning, is funny, and talks to me occasionally. They're twins so I guess he's protective of him brother and thinks I'll hurt Glen or something.

Do they make you feel like part of the family?
Since I'm usually only with them for a couple of hours, because we only meet up for a day every couple of weeks, I can't really tell. But they do make things as nice as possible when I'm there. I really appreciate it. They're so nice. <3

[princessmeg1328]

How do you feel about your SOs parents?
I LOVE his parents, even though I only met them once. His dad told me all kinds of stories about England. His mom made a special dinner just for me and made sure I was nice and warm (I was in England in November and am from Texas). They treated me like I was a part of the family. His dad even gave me a special hug before we left.

Do you love them or not really care for them?
I love them. They are so amazing!

Do they make you feel like part of the family?
Most definitely. One of their other son's fiancee was there, and they treated me just like they did her.

[MissShortie]

How do you feel about your SOs parents?
His mom is so kind to me! She tells me how much she loves me all the time
His dad... (his parents aren't married anymore) he is very nice to me, but sometimes I don't know how to take him...

Do you love them or not really care for them?
I love his mom!

Do they make you feel like part of the family?
His mom, Brother and his brother's girlfriend always makes me feel very welcomed and so apart of their family!

[stacyrose]

[QUOTE=nicole;66602]How do you feel about your SOs parents? His dad isn't so bad, his stepmom, eh..(his biological mom is another story...but she dosnt exist in either of our worlds so its okay).I find her annoying but they are both warming up to me and I am used to their ways now.
Do you love them or not really care for them? I don't not care for them, but I'm not loving them that much either. It's a bit neutral, but its on the nicer side of neutral, if that makes sense.
Do they make you feel like part of the family? They certainly did not at first, but as time goes on I believe they are getting used to me and starting to understand that David loves me and I'm not going anywhere.

[SeattleLove]

I will talk about his mom here, since we never do anything with his dad

How do you feel about your SOs parents?
I freaking love his mom, she is like the coolest mom on the planet (well, she is sharing 1st place with my mom, but she's pretty darn close to be the coolest)
His stepdad is really nice as well and his sister is nice, but she is way different than me....but we get along

Do you love them or not really care for them?
Like I said: I love her...she's like my second mom

Do they make you feel like part of the family?
Definitley, yes..everytime I'm there she is so caring. Well, she treats me better than her own daughter, but maybe also because I'm not that bitchy hahaha (his sister can be a real bitch to her mom)

[CanadianGirl]

How do you feel about your SOs parents?

-They're great and very accepting of us

Do you love them or not really care for them?

-Have only gotten to meet them once, but I love them and I love what I hear about them.

Do they make you feel like part of the family?

-His mom recently bought a new bed for me and him to share when I come over to visit (told him that she wished she could sound-proof the walls a little better. ..lovely). I'm not really a part of the family yet, but I see it happening. They're just a fun bunch of people.

[Bølle]

How do you feel about your SOs parents?
I LOVE them! They are funny, friendly and energetic, and I always feel at home, when I'm visiting them. We may not have that much in common (do you ever really with people twice your age? :P) but we get along very well, and they are very easy to talk to ^^ ..when you forget about their VERY distinct sub-Danish dialect at least.. That kinda DOES make having a conversation more difficult ;P

Do you love them or not really care for them?
They are awesome. Now, of course I love my OWN parents more, but they are a bit more... mellow than my in-laws. They are more lively, and I am a very lively spirit myself, so I really like staying at my SO's parents house And I'm certain they care for me too.

Do they make you feel like part of the family?
Hah, definitely! They have from the very start. I get included close to or just as much as my SO and her siblings in whatever they do. They are GREAT people - and so are the siblings (a hyper little sister and a true teenage little brother). They have all really welcomed me full-heartedly - at least so it seems - and I feel like I fit in

[mssimone]

How do you feel about your SOs parents? They are okay...i guess. I really couldnt stand them at first because they were always so hard on him and it annoys me when anyone treats him like he is nothing. I dont think they liked me very much at first because of something that happened when we were 17 but they have come around since hes been in the navy. They are a little uptight but i can live with that
Do you love them or not really care for them?its not that i dont care for them they just arent my favorite people.
Do they make you feel like part of the family?Now they do make me feel like family. like i said since hes been in the navy they try a little harder...i guess now they see how much i care for him.

[TurboPrinzessin]

How do you feel about your SOs parents?
I LOVE them, I will finally meet them next week *nervous* Especially his mother is in contact with me nearly on a daily basis through FB and sends me kind messages; just today she messages me how excited she was for me to come visit next week :-) that made my day. she explained in length what we could do together, that she is so used to her boys and can't wait to hang out with a girl. she is so lovable.
Do you love them or not really care for them?
I LOVE them
Do they make you feel like part of the family?
Yes they do, in fact, he has a huge family and many of his family members requested to be friends with me on FB and interact with me, his cousin's wife, the aunts, the parents, his friends, his sister in law. they make me feel like a part of the family already even though they are only going to meet me next week. I love them already!

[Kirschlein]

How do you feel about your SOs parents?
My SO lives with his mother but i just... could kick her to the moon... i guess that says everything -__-;;

Do you love them or not really care for them?
Neither of them. I care about the things she does, because its always affecting my SO. She treats him bad, what makes me explode immediately. So i care about her in a way to check her up, so she doesn't do something bad again. Loving? No way..

Do they make you feel like part of the family?
On my very first visit they made me feel like that. But when i heard that she thinks all that sh'' about me.. and everything she does to my SO.. i actually don't want to be part of HER family anymore. Pff...

[Dziubka]

How do you feel about your SOs parents?
Before my SO I haven't had a serious boyfriend that still lived with his parents. I stay at their place when I'm over there so I spend quite a lot of time with them (more than with my own mom, who I see three times a year at most) and they're amazing. I think his mother is just so happy that there's another female in the family and she absolutely loves me. She keeps buying my clothes and cosmetics and stuffs just because she loves shopping
I don't really talk with his dad much, but we get along well, too.

Do you love them or not really care for them?
like them a lot.
Do they make you feel like part of the family?
Definitely. They take me to meet extended family, we do stuff together a family, his mother introduces me to her friends as her daugther in law and I feel really at home at their place.