I just dont understand

[My Hearts in Kentucky]

My SO was down here just 6 days ago, and everything has been on between our relationship until last night. He was just saying such hateful things to be and didnt care about what i had to day. I would say "I miss you" and he would just do a little mhmm. I know he isnt a big fan of talking on the phone, but he hasnt acted this mean before. Its like he is a whole new person and he said he isnt doing anything wrong.

[Silviar]

Maybe he's stressed out about the holidays? People get weird around this time of year. I would try to talk to him, but if he's unresponsive, then I'd consider keeping myself busy and letting him come to you when he's ready to talk more effusively. As in, make time for him, but don't run our entire schedule around him, if that makes sense.

[Zephii]

I'm sorry to hear that. I really have no clue what might be up either, but hopefully he opens up and tells you soon. Don't take any crap, ok? He has no right to be hateful even if he is pissed off for some reason.
He might have just been stressed or sick or something and it'll blow over. I hope so. Keep us posted?

[Snowy.Winter]

My SO has gotten like that a few times, I know how it feels, it just feels like you don't even exist to him sometimes. I would say "I love you" and if we were on MSN, he'd be silent or say "kk" or if we were on the phone, he'd try and change the subject.

He's usually just in a bad mood or is really upset but doesn't want to tell me but I can read him like a book. Try and not get worried about it.

[hxcbreakdance]

I'm sorry but I agree with the other post, maybe he is stressed about something that has to do with school or the holidays. I hope it gets better for you!

[My Hearts in Kentucky]

hey guys, everything has been good today, we havent talked much because he went deer hunting today, we talked a little bit on the phone which went really well.

[Thad]

Its possible he's mad at you because he enjoyed being with you and now he's far away. He may also be picking a fight to get some attention. Although that doesn't seem to be the case.

Last time something like this happened to me was about 6 weeks ago when I was in the middle of my thesis project for graduate school. I was so involved in it that I was ignoring my SO. Obviously unintentionally, but not the less she felt hurt. She picked a fight to get my attention back. We both had a rather crappy night and did not sleep well. The next day we talked things over and were able to sort things out.

I'd say to do your best to let him know how he is making you feel in the most unconfrontational way possible. Then hopefully you'll talk it out and figure it out. And remember, we all have these little bumps in the road.