Now its getting close to the time for me to start the visa process of moving with Denise and for us to get married. Here's what frustrates me to no end, i live in America and we are supposed to be the land of the free, and not discriminate against anyone right??? Well that has gone out the window because in most states gay marriage is banned, theres like a few states that actually allow it. And theres the visa process to coming to America which doesnt give you that many options especially if you and your partner are the same sex and you want them to come move over to you but unless they choose the work, or school visa which are expensive and with the work visa you practically have to be an astronaut to get!! For me and Denise I actually have to apply for a few visa's to move over with her in the UK, no complaints here i wanna move anywhere she is anyway, the UK has those options available which is really awesome! But what I don't understand is why the US can't have these options??? Is the world gonna burst into flames if they have those options available? lol hasent for the UK and there still here, It's really unfair that the US doesn't have this because there are so many couples in this world going through the same thing, and me and Denise are lucky in this aspect because so many other countries do not have the same options available either, and the sad and horrible part is that couples in our situation will actually give up hope and break up because of it. As someone said love is love, it doesnt matter if your the same sex or not, if you love the person you should have the right to wanna be with them forever!!!
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I don't get it either. I think it's easier for people to get in, and get to stay when they come in illegally, than it is for folks to do it the right way. I mean, I don't see them jumping through years of immigration hoops!
No same sex fiance or spouse option is crap. A loving couple is made up of two people. Having 1 vagina and 1 penis does not make a "better" couple. I hope things change. I'd like to see the people fighting this so hard move onto ACTUAL bad things in this country. Lets improve our schools, lets work on lowering the amount of homeless. Lets get rid of puppy mills, lets do more to help battered women. And lets let people who want to be together, and do it the right way, be together.
I'm sorry you're facing this Caitlin. Glad you do have more options in the UK though.
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I think there's a lot of things that need to be changed here. I'm just waiting for "Don't Ask Don't Tell" to get repealed. I mean seriously? What a stupid piece of legislation!
I was so sure about 5 years ago that in 20 years we would look back to now and say "Geeze that's so stupid that we didn't let same sex couples get married" Just like now we look back and say "Geeze that's so stupid that we didn't let interracial couples get married." But I feel a little more down about it now. I don't think a lot of progress is being made and it breaks my heart.
And don't even get me started on immigration! My friend moved here legally with her family and JUST became a USA citizen about 2 years ago. Which means it took her TWELVE YEARS to become a legal citizen. But I also have great sympathy for all illegal citizens... I mean you have to know how hard they work, how little they get paid, and what crappy places they come from...
BUUUTTTT I'm way off topic and rambling...
Good luck, Caitlin, and I'm so sorry this is so tough for you!
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Originally posted by lucybelle View PostI'm just waiting for "Don't Ask Don't Tell" to get repealed.
I'm sure or at least I hope that the laws will change in the distant future to make same sex marriages legal in all of the US (with the exception of Utah because the Church will never allow it =/ sad that a religion dictates what happens in a state). Good luck with everything
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Originally posted by garnet View PostI don't get it either. I think it's easier for people to get in, and get to stay when they come in illegally, than it is for folks to do it the right way. I mean, I don't see them jumping through years of immigration hoops!
Our whole visa system is completely backwater as compared to other wealthy nations. Bluntly, I can't wait to leave.
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I'm sorry darling. I agree with you. The ban on Gay marriage is not only stupid, but discriminatory and unfair. I have the right to marry my boyfriend, You should have the right to marry Denise. Hopefully you will have better luck in the UK.
Wishing you two the best"We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love " ~ Theodore Seuss Geisel.
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Our whole visa system is completely backwater as compared to other wealthy nations. Bluntly, I can't wait to leave.
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Maybe this will make you feel better :P.
This is why my family came here illegally and either waited for an amnesty or had sham marriages to stay :P. Anchor babies work too XP. I'm not saying I suggest it >.>...<.<...>.>... It's just how most of us did it :P.
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Originally posted by Darth_Taco View PostMaybe this will make you feel better :P.
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This is why my family came here illegally and either waited for an amnesty or had sham marriages to stay :P. Anchor babies work too XP. I'm not saying I suggest it >.>...<.<...>.>... It's just how most of us did it :P.
Man, if I keep thinking about this, I'm gonna end up kicking a puppy or something.
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