I think it's ending and I'm not letting go with out a fight.

[Aussie]

Hey,
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over nine months now and over the last six weeks or so we have been getting more and more distant. I think that perhaps we need to change things up a bit but I am so worried and I really need help. I live only 200+ miles from her but that is long enough that when I am at college I can't see her save for every month or more. I am desperate to save this relationship because we both still love each other.
Ethan

[Čternity]

You need to talk to her and share your concerns. Ask her how she is feeling with the distance and what her thoughts are. Perhaps you could set aside time to talk at regular times. Talk to her and find out if she shares your concerns about the relationship becoming distant. Maybe she's just having a busy time and assumes everything is fine. Maybe something else but best to talk with her to find out.