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    #1

    To Texas with me!

    So Im supposed to be going to TX to see the bf in feb and I found a really good deal on the flight and the hotel >.> literally like a hr ago. I want to book it but I have a fear of him flaking out on me and these friggin tickets are non refundable. He said he's eager to have me down there and all but the last time he was suppose to come see me and he waited til a week before he was suppose to come and called me in the middle of the night saying he couldn't make it. So I just dont want that to happen again and then Im out 600 bucks. But I kind of figured he wasn't coming because he hadn't booked his flight. he kept saying he could do it a couple days before. :P
    Anyway! Hopefully everything works out okay
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    If that's what you feel you gotta do, then I wish you the best. I hope you'll consider making some plans in case you have to amuse yourself or if things go downhill. I'm not saying it will, I'm just concerned because of the way he's been treating you, particularly given your thread about jealousy you also posted this morning. He's exhibiting all sorts of behaviors that can be considered red flags... and I'm just worried about you, hun. Please, take care of yourself. I hope this trip gives you the answers and time together you need.


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      #3
      I have to agree with Silviar, if you go be careful especially if your plans to meet each other fall through and make sure to have a backup plan in case you don't get to meet up with him. Also be careful around him if you do meet just because of some of the red flags i've seen from your past posts.




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        #4
        Well Hope everything turns out well for you. But do make sure you have a backup plan available, take a look at the attractions of his local area and plan as a backup to go sightseeing. There is a lot of Texas to see.

        I hope the red flags turn out to be red herrings. God bless.
        Love is the only thing that can cross all boundaries and cannot be stopped. It crosses countries, continents, oceans and even the stars themselves. It makes peace in the middle of war, and stops hatred in it's tracks. -Anon

        Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. - Apostle Paul in his first letter to the Church at Corinth (1 Corinthians 13:3-5)

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          #5
          Thanks for everybody's concerns I haven't actually booked anything. Im waiting until I know for sure its a good date and to see if we can even get there without getting into another fight about something stupid. We havent so far though

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            #6
            well he said he was going to get the hotel for us since I was flying out to see him but I did consider having a back up plan thats why Im planning to book the hotel myself. He hasn't said anything to make me second guess going to see him I just second guess things alot. But that does make me consider waiting like extra 3 months for one of my friends to go but then at the same time Im really selfish and really impatient and I just want things to work out.

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              #7
              Well Im not going because I think I need to in order for our relationship to work out. We were planning on going in january but then we had that serious fight so we decided to wait to see how we could handle what we discussed. So far he's been alot more attentive. Im not sure if its because he's jealous of me hanging out with my guy friends or what. We haven't argued for a good bit about anything. I just want to see him but it is a lot of money and everything

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                #8
                I can understand the rock and hard place you're in. I will say, meeting in person will end up, I think, deciding things for you both one way or another. It will show you in person what you're getting into. But waiting for a friend to go with you in a few months may be worth it. Check ticket prices and see for yourself. I would go with what's cost effective.


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                  #9
                  We had a pleasant talk this morning and just decided to wait a bit longer. Its almost a relief now I can buy the things I wanted but was saving for XD

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