Distant

[Laura]

I've had to postpone our (usually every other day) phone-call by one day, twice this week. (i.e. Weds phonecall had to be on Thurs, Sat phonecall has to be tonight (Sun))
He's been REALLY distant when we've been texting each other this week, and when I asked him what was wrong he said it's because of the space between 'real-time contact' making him SEEM distant. That's a pile of crap because we've had a couple of days without contact when he's been at friends' houses watching F1 a few times, and he didn't seem distant THEN.
Just wondered if anyone knows what might be up with him, 'cause it's really bugging me.

[ettie]

I have no clue what is happening to him, and I think people can only speculate different posibilities which can only make you paranoid. My suggestion, make sure you have a phone conversation soon and ask him what is happening and to be honest with you, explain it makes you feel sad and you need to know. Do it on the phone and even better if you can see his face on cam that way you will be certain he is telling the truth.

Hope is nothing, best whishes!

[Mio]

I think you should ask him directly, not accusing, but making your point clear. This distance is certainly making a difference in your relationship. You should tell him how you feel about it. It can be a million of different things like school, work, stress, family issues, personal issues, etc. And the only way you will know if to check it out. Maybe is time for you guys to see each other again, don't know, but I hope it works out!

[Laura]

It was nothing in the end; he's just been tired because he's been doing a lot of work outside lately. Can't make me paranoid about Paul anyways; he's not the type. Cheating's the absolute last thing he'd do. Even if he wasn't happy with me, he'd just tell me
Thanks, though. I talked to him about it properly and we figured that it's just him being tired and me being a bit OTT. Thanks for the help though ^_^

[ettie]

It is good to hear everything worked fine!