So ever since my SO went home after his trip here, it seems like the new relationship energy had completely faded leaving us both in a state of 'Where do we go from here?'
We've had a few very brief conversations regarding it and he wants to just wait and see if things get better. However, I feel like the just wait and see approach doesn't apply to LDRs. You have to act to get any kind of result that far away. Am I right? I am trying to remind him of all the little things we used to do for each other in the beginning that made us feel so great and in love but it doesn't seem like he's really trying to reciprocate. Maybe it's just the distance, maybe it's something else, maybe it's just me over-reacting? He still says he loves me every time we talk on the phone and he says he wants to work on the relationship. I'm just not seeing it and I'm starting to get worried.
Help?
We've had a few very brief conversations regarding it and he wants to just wait and see if things get better. However, I feel like the just wait and see approach doesn't apply to LDRs. You have to act to get any kind of result that far away. Am I right? I am trying to remind him of all the little things we used to do for each other in the beginning that made us feel so great and in love but it doesn't seem like he's really trying to reciprocate. Maybe it's just the distance, maybe it's something else, maybe it's just me over-reacting? He still says he loves me every time we talk on the phone and he says he wants to work on the relationship. I'm just not seeing it and I'm starting to get worried.
Help?
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