Ack... So it's only been a little less than a week before he left and I feel so awful... Everyone around me seems to have a negative view of my situation. "Are you sure you want to do this?" "Maybe you should find someone local"... I am plagued with doubts about this. I care about him, but we're so new to each other, sometimes I doubt whether this is worth all the pain of missing him... I don't want to spend my time listening to sad 80's ballads, looking out a rainy window...
I truly adore him and I want to make this work, but I feel like I need reassurance that he feels the same way. He's voiced his concerns to me before about the "complexities" of long distance relationships. He did say that he plans to move back to Vancouver to be with me next November. I'm feeling very needy at the moment. I don't want to push him too much though... How do I get some reassurance from him without being too pushy? I don't want too many doubts to enter into our relationship, but I am feeling like I need to know how he's feeling about things... Or maybe I should just back off and the doubts will subside in time?
I want to know... How much does he care about me? How seriously is he taking this relationship? These are very difficult and uncomfortable questions that I'm not sure I want to ask him so soon... Uhhh maybe I'm not cut out for this... Help!!!
I truly adore him and I want to make this work, but I feel like I need reassurance that he feels the same way. He's voiced his concerns to me before about the "complexities" of long distance relationships. He did say that he plans to move back to Vancouver to be with me next November. I'm feeling very needy at the moment. I don't want to push him too much though... How do I get some reassurance from him without being too pushy? I don't want too many doubts to enter into our relationship, but I am feeling like I need to know how he's feeling about things... Or maybe I should just back off and the doubts will subside in time?
I want to know... How much does he care about me? How seriously is he taking this relationship? These are very difficult and uncomfortable questions that I'm not sure I want to ask him so soon... Uhhh maybe I'm not cut out for this... Help!!!
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