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I don't think I've seen any of your prior posts, but if it was me I'd come clean. Hiding things only makes it worse as you've found out by seeing he has profiles. You guys need to talk. No accusations or arguments, just talk. Ask questions. I've learned that it's best to say how you're feeling rather than say what was done. Like, "I feel betrayed." rather than, "You betrayed me." I mean, maybe find out why he's on these sites in the first place. Is he lonely? I know he has you, but maybe he's looking for friends? Maybe you've been busy and he's been feeling neglected? There's a reason and you guys should discuss it. The best thing is to get things out in the open.
Honestly? If I were you I would not even bother to address it...I would just be done with this relationship. I know that sounds harsh but Tissa, he is controlling and manipulative and emotionally abusive to you.
I hope that you can find some closure on this whole thing.
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