The longest I've ever talked to my SO straight was 2 hours. Maybe you should call at night about an hour before you need to go to bed. And when the time is coming say "okay well it's late and I gotta get to sleep" That's how our conversations always end!
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Wow, all you guys seem to talk A LOT. I only skype my so once or twice a week for bout an hour and never text.. Is that odd? I guess different things work for different couples! I'd say you should definitely try and cut down because I get to look forward to talking to my boyf when I haven't talked to him in a few days! It's more fun
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@Effie: I can't imagine talking to by SO only once or twice a week, but I agree with all the people telling to limit the frequency and the lenght of the call to have more things to say, every day!Comment
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I agree that talking too much can actually strain the relationship. On days where my SO and I text back and forth all day, it's great at first, but then it starts to stress me out because I'm always checking my phone, and start to get an empty feeling when I see he hasn't texted me, which is definitely not ok. Same with phone calls. Too many and you start to rely on them too much, and freak out when something happens and you don't hear from them.Comment
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