He is totally overreacting. As I have grown older I have realized just how silly that argument really is. I have BEEN there..I was the jealous one...eh we are all human. I find many men and female attractive...but it is my SO that I choose to love fully.
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NY to Texas Married on...August 17th, 2013 -
What everyone else said. You are allowed you find other people attractive because you can't help what is pleasing to your eye. I know my SO is going to look at other girls, in fact I've seen him do it ( funny story actually), but those girls aren't what he wants. I am. (Plus I'm better looking anyway
) And I know that because he's been with me for over a year despite the distance.
It sounds like your SO is insecure. You can say " Yes I find other people attractive, but I'm not attracted to them. I'm only attracted to you!""We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love " ~ Theodore Seuss Geisel.Comment
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