*headdesk*.......

[NaNi]

My SO and I had a lovely long talk yesterday and I felt so happy about it that I posted a short, sweet comment on her Facebook wall.

Well, her mom just told us that my "Thank you for that awesome night" comment made her feel uncomfortable and that she viewed it in a sexual way and others will too.

I deleted the comment even though my SO told me not to.

I'm just so sick of having to watch what I'm writing to my GIRLFRIEND. Especially if it's something really innocent.

Yeah, it happened before...

/end of rant

[JessicaTran05]

I think your situation is very similar to mine. I have to watch what I say to my girlfriend whenever her sister is around or whenever her friends is around or whenever her families is around. She lives in Vietnam and so she can't tell anybody and can't come out to anybody at all. Sometime I get frustrated but then I am grateful that we got to talk, so just talk happy and regular everyday stuff. We are planning for our future and planning ways for her to come to the US. I know that would be hard but we are going to give all it takes. I already told her, I would move there with her if everything fail, but our love would never fail. good luck with your relationship! How far are the distance between you guys? mine is 15 hours!

[agentholli]

Ugh, i am so sorry!

[garnet]

Geez. I saw that comment, I personally didn't take it in a sexual way at all. Does it matter what her mom thinks? I mean, you are both adults, you should be able to speak freely.

[katilady87]

Yeah I think that's utterly ridiculous and sorry you have to deal with that. People can have good nights with their SO and it doesn't have to involve sexual stuff. Good luck chica <3

[Caitlin2009]

pffft so what if you know the comment wasent sexual thats all that matters, i dont give a shit what people say or how they view things. if you dont like it then thats too bad, you shouldnt have to feel bad about something that was purely innocent

[BoogleBee]

Yeah we know it wasn't sexual, and it was just innocent, so I tried to tell her not to delete it, but ah well, I understand why she did. Grrrrr mum, you ruined the day. And just now when she came to talk to me again she now seems offended that I told Nani about it.

[Micah]

I am sorry you felt that way. I personally would have kept the comment up there, but I have grown to not really care what others think. I understand the conflict, though. Just try to do what makes you happy!

[loveknowsnodistance27]

Aww, I'm sorry. =[

[Karringtyn]

I saw it too and thought NOTHING of it. For crying outloud..you BOTH are adults. SO sick of everyone telling people what to put on THEIR facebook. (((Hugs)))) To you both..

[Dauntedpoet]

OMG.. okay so here is what you do... GET EVERYONE you know on facebook... that Booglebee's mom can see in her homepage... to post the exact same comment to someone!!!

ALRIGHT it probably won't help her get over feeling offended, but come on.. seriously??? that was a rather insensitive comment, especially considering she KNEW it wasn't a sexual reference.

[BoogleBee]

I saw it too and thought NOTHING of it. For crying outloud..you BOTH are adults. SO sick of everyone telling people what to put on THEIR facebook. (((Hugs)))) To you both..

Hey thanks. Good to know that other people who actually saw it noticed it for what it actually was, just a sweet comment.

And thanks to everyone else for your comments too.

[Silviar]

For that matters... who cares if it's viewed sexually? Are you supposed to be celibate before marriage by her beliefs?

You should jsut start writing after all of your comments (in a sexual way) or (in a non-sexual way) just to annoy her :P

[BoogleBee]

OMG.. okay so here is what you do... GET EVERYONE you know on facebook... that Booglebee's mom can see in her homepage... to post the exact same comment to someone!!!

Haha great idea!

I swear she came into my room and said about how it wasn't appropriate as she viewed it sexually, and I said "Mum..it wasn't about phone sex or anything, it was because we had been arguing recently and finally had a nice, happy, great conversation"
"Oh but like can't you see how people could view it that way?"

Grr. I'm going out to keep away from her. A beautiful sunny day, I should go out and enjoy.
On the plus side just got off a 2 hour skype convo with Nani and we are both happy and in good moods again

[BoogleBee]

For that matters... who cares if it's viewed sexually? Are you supposed to be celibate before marriage by her beliefs?

You should jsut start writing after all of your comments (in a sexual way) or (in a non-sexual way) just to annoy her :P

Haha, nah she knows what goes on and doesn't mind, but "Should be kept to private emails" well yeah sure mum IF it was sexual in the first place which it wasn't!
Just coz we only have skype to communicate doesn't mean that the only reason we would have had an awesome night is due to sex talk..I'm just surprised at her interpretation of the comment.

Ah well behind us now! I will go out and enjoy the sunny summer day...away from the house.