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    If you had to move to another country with your SO, where would you guys move? would you ever regret moving or is it worth it?
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    #2
    not sure, since he's a US Marine, like now he's stationates in Japan, but i sure would go where ever he is, n i like the idea of living in a whole new country, so im pretty sure i wouldnt regret it.

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      #3
      We would both like to live in Australia at some point. We were just talking about this two nights ago.


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        #4
        Yes, I would. And I am, in April.

        I'll let you know about regrets once I'm there.
        Last edited by Silviar; February 12, 2011, 05:50 PM.


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          #5
          Would never be a possibility. I have three children..and joint custody. I am stuck in NY.
          NY to Texas Married on...August 17th, 2013

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            #6
            I would move to England to be with my SO, and I don't think I would regret it. I lived there for a semester abroad, and I really liked it.
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              #7
              I don't think I should slap my parents in the face by moving to a different country and giving up my American citizenship, but maybe somewhere that accepts dual citizenship.

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                #8
                I'm British, (living in England) my so is American. Our plan is for us both to live in Scotland. Ok not "technically" another country but it means both of us are compromising.

                If I were to move to the states we would move to a different state. Basically our views are that one of us is making a huge life change, so the least the other one can do is compromise by having both of us start afresh.
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                  #9
                  I don't think this would ever happen or be possible, but we would go to Germany. Hands down.

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                    #10
                    Well we might move to England together! That way I am in a country I speak the language of, and will have a British passport before I go so wouldn't need visa's and such and my SO is from Germany so she is part of the EU so it's a possibility maybe at some point.

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                      #11
                      Yep - in October I'm moving to Canada.

                      He has joint custody of his 10 yr old son, so he can't move here.

                      Moving countries isn't what it's cracked up to be, but so completely worth it when you know whose waiting for you

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                        #12
                        I'll be the one moving to Japan. I couldn't see us living in any other country since my SO doesn't speak anything but Japanese.

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                          #13
                          I will be moving to America. We will be moving somewhere other then Ohio at some point, so in the end, we're both going to be moving somewhere new, I'll just be more used to the relocation. I won't regret it, I really don't like living here, and if I'm unhappy other there, I will be with my SO and we can figure out a new plan as and when.

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                            #14
                            I did move to my SO's country. We are now trying to figure out together how I can have a career in my profession here. I miss my family and friends constantly, especially my mum and my best friend; the food here is horrible and does nothing to help the strict diet I've been living on in the past 5 years; I'm still learning the language, and my job prospects are unclear at the moment. However, I do not regret it - at least, not so far. There are, obviously, moments when I think whether it would not have been better for my career to stay where I was, but then again I know that I had very few prospects there. I might have no trouble finding a job as such, but it would, in all probability, not keep me satisfied, and I would eventually regret NOT moving. And my SO is there, supporting me all along, helping me go through prospects, brainstorming, correcting my CV... Just 2 days ago he ordered a big book for me, to help me prepare for an exam I need to take. I'm terrified, obviously, but I am much more terrified of not being able to be with him. So yes, it's worth it.

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                              #15
                              I would and have. It's harder than you think it would be, but it's doable! I have no regrets, but occasionally there is resentment, and we both feel the internationalness keenly. It's also rather expensive.

                              He's moving to my country in September

                              We would never move to a place where neither of us have family/friends.
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