moving to different country

[tinatuff]

We both plan to move to Canada together, I'm from Australia and she is from united states.
However there is the issue with family. Don't know what to do.
We don't regret being together in Canada, but sad that we would be away from family though.
Guess we will see.

[lshay]

I have two children and joint custody so that is not an option for me.
My SO is in Rio de Janeiro and I am in the U.S.
If I did not have children, which is the only thing keeping me here, I would move to Rio to be with him in a heart beat.
Not just to be with him though, it would be a new start for my life after the divorce as well. I love Rio, it's an amazing city and have many friends there so it wouldn't be just him that I could talk to.
I'm going back in 10 days and I stay with him and his family when I go, 18 days at a time, so I have a great opportunity to be with them.

But because I have children and cannot do anything at the moment, for us to be together, the only option is for him to move here temporarily until my youngest begins college.
After that, I would love for both of us to move anywhere he wanted.
Italy sounds like it would be exciting but if he wanted to move back to Rio...that would be fine as well.