What if its a "NO"?

[KiwiLove]

Does your SO speak French or German? If not, I would dare to assume that he has no prospects in Switzerland, while your English (in spite of what you may claim) is very good, and can get you settled in Australia

No he doesnt speak French or German and he has never been to Europe aswell.
So I think its the best when Im the one whos moving. Of course I see its better this way, I just would like to know if he would do something like this for me aswell.
Oh...thank you for the compliment *blushes* but I think I have to study a LOT more in english since Im always to shy to talk because Im always afraid to make mistakes ;-)

@Zephii

Save your money quietly, and wait until you're an adult.

I turned 21 back in december 2010 so I think Im old enough to make my own decisions...actually! I got a lot of money from my grandparents for my 20st birthday and Im saving money since I started my current work, so I guess that wouldnt be a real problem. But they just tread me like im 14 and I dont know how to become accepted :-/

[Zephii]

Oh! Sorry mate, for some reason I thought you were younger. I would, in that case, just do it. Eventually they will forgive you. Make your plans, get your visa and tickets then go to them and say this is what's happening and why, I love you and would like your support. You will see me again.
They'll be upset and angry for a little while, but loving and missing you will likely overcome that.

[KiwiLove]

Oh! Sorry mate, for some reason I thought you were younger.

lol, no worries, its okay!
Maybe its my style in writing :-/
yep..I know, I should just do it. My friend told me aswell I should just organise all my things, book my flight, apply for my visa and just tell them Im going there!!
Actually they cant do anything to hold me back from moving. But it still sucks seeing that I make them so sad :-/

[Dziubka]

I was gonna write something to this all week, but my SO is here, so I haven't so far.
Anyway.
I think it's not fair to say "if you wouldn't move for me, I won't move for you". Because it's just not the same for everyone.
I moved out (to another country, that I didn't speak the language of at all) at 19, then a year later moved again a few hundred kilometres and after another year again to another city I didn't know (where I met my boyfriend). I speak his language fluently. Whereas he has always lived in the same city, always with his parents and while he does speak some German, it's not really conversational (yet).
It would be a lot harder for him to move to my country than it would be for me to move to his. I would totally understand it, if he said that he didn't want to move for me. I'd never expect him to do it.

That said, I really think you need to set boundaries between you and your parents. I know how hard it can be, and I'm really not in a place to talk about it, because my mum has always encouraged me to live my own life and while we love each other, we don't mind being apart so much, as long as we can regularly talk on the phone.
It's part of growing up and if you want to move, don't let them influence you on that.