I just needed to let off a bit of steam, hope no one minds...
Last night I sent a goodnight text (as I always do - I'm always to first one to go to bed) and got nothing back, so just assumed his phone was off or dead or whatever. I knew he was at home not doing anything so wasn't worried about him being in an accident or anything, so went off to sleep perfectly happy.
Two hours later, my phone woke me up with a text. I'm not the happiest of people when I get woken up - everyone who has ever needed to wake me up knows to bring gifts of tea or kisses (or both) lol. I read it and then got even more grumpy, as the text just said 'Soz dam thing was on silent'. No 'goodnight', no x at the end, no telling me not to stress about tomorrow (now today just gone) as he knew I was. Nothing. So I went back to sleep without replying and woke up in an even worse 'I hate mornings' mode than usual.
I would just like to mention that I know even one text from your SO is something special for some people in LDRs but not for us - we're in the same country and both have unlimited texts on our mobiles.
Now, after hardly speaking all day (I replied to 'good morning have a good day' with 'OK' on account of being mad and grumpy) I've just sent him 'night' and got the same back I know he knows I'm mad and grumpy with him. But he hasn't figured out why and probably thinks I'm upset for not replying last night. Actually, it's because he texted me two hours after he knew I would be asleep, and he knows that I have my phone on the whole time just in case, and that it was a crappy message. He woke me up for no reason!! I would have much rather he waited another 6-8 hours.
Seeing this all typed does make it sound stupid, but I'm grumpy.
Last night I sent a goodnight text (as I always do - I'm always to first one to go to bed) and got nothing back, so just assumed his phone was off or dead or whatever. I knew he was at home not doing anything so wasn't worried about him being in an accident or anything, so went off to sleep perfectly happy.
Two hours later, my phone woke me up with a text. I'm not the happiest of people when I get woken up - everyone who has ever needed to wake me up knows to bring gifts of tea or kisses (or both) lol. I read it and then got even more grumpy, as the text just said 'Soz dam thing was on silent'. No 'goodnight', no x at the end, no telling me not to stress about tomorrow (now today just gone) as he knew I was. Nothing. So I went back to sleep without replying and woke up in an even worse 'I hate mornings' mode than usual.
I would just like to mention that I know even one text from your SO is something special for some people in LDRs but not for us - we're in the same country and both have unlimited texts on our mobiles.
Now, after hardly speaking all day (I replied to 'good morning have a good day' with 'OK' on account of being mad and grumpy) I've just sent him 'night' and got the same back I know he knows I'm mad and grumpy with him. But he hasn't figured out why and probably thinks I'm upset for not replying last night. Actually, it's because he texted me two hours after he knew I would be asleep, and he knows that I have my phone on the whole time just in case, and that it was a crappy message. He woke me up for no reason!! I would have much rather he waited another 6-8 hours.
Seeing this all typed does make it sound stupid, but I'm grumpy.
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