I'm currently in a CDR with my wonderful boyfriend of almost 4 months, Garrett. We've known each other for almost two years. I'm a senior in high school, and he's a sophomore. Ironically, he's the most mature guy I've been with. I've had three relationships before him: 1 year 4 months, 1 year 5 months, and 11 months. I'm very serious about the people I get into relationships with and always have long term, forever intentions. My last relationship ended in devistating heartbreak.
Garrett and I met in marching band in my junior year, when he was a freshman. It was my first of two years being percussion captain, therefore leader of his section. Even though I was his leader, we became fast friends. We shared so many interests including that deep passion for playing percussion. It was obvious to me that he liked me in a very short time. However, I had just entered my last relationship and didn't even consider him. We remained friends throughout that year. This past summer he had a fling with a girl I knew was horrible for him and would break his heart. I was right. We helped each other through the pain through the marching season, my last. He also got me to rejoin our local indoor drumline with him, which was the best decision I've made in a long time.
Garrett wants to be an engineer. He's incredibly smart, driven, goal oriented, has a great family that I love, adores animals, wants two kids just like me, LOVES percussion, favors movie soundtracks over all other music, is hilarious, loves to joke around and have fun, and best of all is nurturing and patient with me whenever I need him to be. He cares so much and does whatever he can to ensure I'm happy, which is exactly what I do for him. Though it may sound crazy or weird, he tells me all the time that he can't wait to marry me and spend forever with me. He treats me how I've always wanted to be treated but never have been.
Marching band, and music itself, is basically what I'm made of. It's inspired me to go to East Carolina University to major in Music Education. Garrett helped me overcome my doubts in myself and go audition. I recently made it in the music school and plan to go this fall
I never thought I'd date someone younger than me. But Garrett is truly the best person I know. We have our moments, but this relationship is so much healthier than I've ever experienced in my past ones. We hang out all the time like best friends while we love each other passionately. It's as perfect as it can get.
I head off to college around August 14th. I joined this site because I have every intention to stay with Garrett forever, as childish as that may sound coming from someone my age. I will not pressure him to go to ECU when that time comes for him, but it would thrill me if he did. I just would love some advice on how to make this work, and I'm open to all opinions.
Garrett and I met in marching band in my junior year, when he was a freshman. It was my first of two years being percussion captain, therefore leader of his section. Even though I was his leader, we became fast friends. We shared so many interests including that deep passion for playing percussion. It was obvious to me that he liked me in a very short time. However, I had just entered my last relationship and didn't even consider him. We remained friends throughout that year. This past summer he had a fling with a girl I knew was horrible for him and would break his heart. I was right. We helped each other through the pain through the marching season, my last. He also got me to rejoin our local indoor drumline with him, which was the best decision I've made in a long time.
Garrett wants to be an engineer. He's incredibly smart, driven, goal oriented, has a great family that I love, adores animals, wants two kids just like me, LOVES percussion, favors movie soundtracks over all other music, is hilarious, loves to joke around and have fun, and best of all is nurturing and patient with me whenever I need him to be. He cares so much and does whatever he can to ensure I'm happy, which is exactly what I do for him. Though it may sound crazy or weird, he tells me all the time that he can't wait to marry me and spend forever with me. He treats me how I've always wanted to be treated but never have been.
Marching band, and music itself, is basically what I'm made of. It's inspired me to go to East Carolina University to major in Music Education. Garrett helped me overcome my doubts in myself and go audition. I recently made it in the music school and plan to go this fall
I never thought I'd date someone younger than me. But Garrett is truly the best person I know. We have our moments, but this relationship is so much healthier than I've ever experienced in my past ones. We hang out all the time like best friends while we love each other passionately. It's as perfect as it can get.
I head off to college around August 14th. I joined this site because I have every intention to stay with Garrett forever, as childish as that may sound coming from someone my age. I will not pressure him to go to ECU when that time comes for him, but it would thrill me if he did. I just would love some advice on how to make this work, and I'm open to all opinions.
i really appreciate the input. i'll take that advice, zephii. i'm glad i joined this site :]
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