Why does this happen?

[Darth_Taco]

Well...it seems to happen every time I'm in a relationship. Random people come out of nowhere and confess their feelings for me :'D. Not fun D:<! This time, it's been a year and a half so I didn't think it would happen again after the first few months. Then it happens ;_;. His friend steals his phone for a second and sends me provocative messages. I thought it was Enrique @_@.

I thought he was just being a perv, so I told him to stop when I found out XP. Then he confessed having feelings for me and how apparently Enrique and I aren't right for each other or something like that. I had no idea how to respond to that. He's literately only met me twice, and this is the first time we've spoken to each other in months. How the hell does he have feelings for me!? And why is he telling me this while in the same room as my boyfriend O_o? Enrique is crazy, and can get insanely jealous in the most random times. If he knew one of his friends liked me...oh Lord @_@. He's telling me more things like he'll be there for me if it doesn't work out and that I can always count on him. Again, I've met him twice and rarely speak to him. Then he says how Enrique doesn't seem interested and that he should text me more. I hate texting, I'm fine with slow texting @_@. Then something about how he can handle my crazy better. I'm a recovering addict, no one can handle my shit! Then he starts discussing his depression and how it's all due to his ex. At that point, I figure he's just displacing his feelings on me since I'm from Vegas like him.

I have no idea what to do :'D. I really wanna tell Enrique that he has a friend that needs help. That unfortunately involves him knowing what he's been telling me all day XP. That could lead to the end of a friendship (or life XP). Oh Jesus, I'm the woman in between again @_@. How does this happen to me so often? Seriously, this happens way too often. It's worse than a Novela. All I need is for my brother to suddenly find out he's gay and some crazy bitch try to kill me while I'm pregnant to take my man and I can sell my story to a random Mexican channel and get rich *crosses fingers*.

Ok, I got distracted again XP. Do I tell Enrique? Or should I be the one to deal with this? Before you ask, I told him nothing would happen between us since I'm in love with his friend and have a good relationship with him. We might not say it too often, but we have ways of showing it to each other. I might have to add more detail later since I feel like I was really vague. I'm kinda weirded out...

[agentholli]

Wow, that is a hard one. I really don't know how to handle that, but I just wanted to tell you good luck! You should go with your gut on telling him or not.

[folclor]

I would tell Alex if it were me... but, then again, Alex would laugh and say it's because I'm sexy and then go tell his friend to bugger off...

But in the case of your boyfriend... I'd give him a heads-up but don't give him specifics unless you have to.

[NerdyH]

Ahh, tricky. This sort of thing happened to me once - I found out my friend had feelings for me when I was in a relationship with my guy(and I still am). I told my boyfriend, and he's very jealous so he had some issues with it. But this guy who liked me stepped away from me completely as I confronted him and told him that I actually have a boyfriend. It's not much of an issue anymore.

It might be wise to tell him, to keep your relationship an honest one. I don't know if you talk to this guy often, but maybe cutting off contacts with him would be best for your relationship. But of course, it is your choice to make.

I'm sure this will work out just fine!
Good luck!

[Darth_Taco]

Yeah I told him. He reacted ok, he's just pissed that his friend stabbed him in the back like that. Then this stupid shit started when his two closest friends told the guy that I told Enrique. This is the second time in a row. When he gets out of work, Enrique's likely going to get pissed. He told them in confidence like I told a friend of mine. I turn 20 this year, I'm too old for this shit! I prefer my adult problems, people at least attempt some intelligence (and can be resolved in court) ;_;.

And guess what? :'D? The friend is trying to make himself a victim saying I twisted the truth. I just told him that i never lie since I don't owe him more than that. I too fucking old for this shit. I'm a recovering junkie and beat both my living grandparents to disability. That crap tends to mature you way too quickly. I don't mean to sound arrogant, and I know I am. Still, this is beneath me. My neighbor sells weed...I'm tempted right now (non-physically addictive).

[Molly]

That blows. I think I would have told my bf as well because otherwise you could have gotten shit for it. I know Derik would be pissed at me if something like that happened and I never told him. Anyway, I hope things improve for you soon.

[totalspiffage]

Aww. man. Well, as much as it may bother you, just ignore them. I'm in high school, so of course I deal with crap drama that no one needs on a daily basis. Obviously they're just immature boys. Well, your friend, not your boyfriend. Yeah. Just tell your SO the truth over and over. He's bound to believe you.

[xGabbriela]

Ignore the temptations. It's much easier to justify other things when you've smoked some.....
But, your SO believes you obviously and his friend needs a psychologist.

[Darth_Taco]

Fortunately the guy is avoiding me now. He seems to be a bit scared of me :P. Oh well :'D. How do I delete this thing? I wanna move on @_@.

[Mio]

He looks a little disturbed, I would try for him to stop but eventually I would tell Enrique