Someone needs help

[Jovan]

I had a friend who is in LDR. He's a Asian Guy. He'd storied me about his relations with his Asian Girl friend. Recently, they'd broke up after 3 years been together yet haven't meet each other. Their families are not agreed with their relations since he lied to his girl friend about him self plus, he has a sickness which could take his life. As far as i know, they'd been brake up for few times become come to the END. The girl has leaved him with unclear answered. Their relations sort of 'Hanging'. They still contacting each other which is for me, just wasting a time. They both know its impossible to be together again. I conclude that, their just hurting each other and let their self suffered.
Anyone of you here could give some opinion or advise?

[Italia10]

It sounds as if these two people are in a really bad pattern of talking and then breaking things off. Sometimes people need to learn from their own mistakes. Eventually they will realize that things may or may not work out.

[Zephii]

I believe sometimes its better to let people make their own mistakes, let them deal with breaking up in whatever way they choose to and run their relationships how they want to without interfereance. I guess just support him how you can and if he asks you for help, then tell him your thoughts honestly but kindly.

[Mio]

That sound like the story of Fabbio in this site. Anyway, I think the only support you can give him is to give him your ears and shoulder

[karbauer]

It's not entirely the girl's fault. I'm not agreeing that just leaving him without giving him a reason was right, but maybe she just knew they wouldn't work out but couldn't give an exact reason why. Sometimes you can just tell you're not meant to be with the person you're with.

As for the guy, he can either try to figure out the true reason she left him or just move on. It'll be hard if they were in a relationship for 3 years but he can do it. He might have to stop talking to her altogether because sometimes that just brings up memories and getting over her will be nearly impossible. But, if he thinks he can move on with her as just a friend, there's nothing wrong with a little communication.
good luck to them