My parents want us divorced!

[arzelturner]

So a little about my back story. I have been married to my wonderful husband for over a year and we have been living together for two years. From the start my parents never liked him. They are very big "female power" people to the point where it makes me sick. The women get to sit around and be lazy asses while the men of the house are worked like slaves. Well anyway when my husband and I started dating he moved in with me and my parents because at the time he was working for them. He only lived here for about a month or 2 before we ended up moving out because of there BS. After living on our own for about 10 months out of nowhere they fired him. my husband tried to find another job but he couldn't so my parents so "nicely" said we could move in with them.

Our whole relationship my parents have flat out told me that they didn't think we were going to last. We ended up not even having a wedding because my parents said that I just wanted to waste money so we went to the county courts and got married there which made my parents even MORE mad and the reason they fired my husband

Recently my wonderful and supportive father-in-law made my husband an offer. He said that my husband could live with him in Stockton (5 hours away) and see if he could find a job but if he couldn't find one that he would have to move back down here.If he can find one I would join him after this Quarter of school.

Well my parents then proceeded to tell us that if he can't find a job up there not to bother coming back because he can't move back in here but its perfectly fine for me to stay.

Then after my husband left I said something about how I miss him and my parents response? "Well its good hes gone it gives you time to think about things without him brain washing you." I shrugged it off but today I over heard them saying something along the lines of "Soon as Arzel divorces Mike..." Where the hell did that come from? I am NOT getting a divorce!

Ugh I hate it I live in a prison and all I can do is count down the days until I will be back in my husbands arms.

[LadyMarchHare]

Take their 'concern' with a grain of salt and once you have physical distance between you and them, you might want to think about limiting your contact with them to the point of perhaps not even talking to them. They have a right to their opinions, but you aren't entitled to hearing them. If they can't support you and be happy for you, they're not worth the air in their lungs nor are they worth your time and respect. Family or no, you're an adult, you married someone you love, and even on the off chance you guys don't work out you and him don't deserve the shit they're needlessly flinging.