hey everyone!
i really haven't posted much on here since eric broke up with me in march.
so here's the scoop..
after the break up things were layin low for a little while, we weren't talking as much, and didn't skype at all. then, about a week after the break up we were suppose to have a date night that was planned before the break up, and so we decided to still have it. it was special because we hadn't skyped at all that entire week (we skype all the time, including when we sleep just an fyi) and it was such a great night. we were laughing, and it was really nice to not be upset, and i was genuinely happy.
anyways, after that, each day we just tried to work on our problems more and more, fight less, and realize the issues that need to be worked on. we were talking about the break up one night and i said to him your such a guy, you probably didn't really want to break up with me you were just in the heat of the moment and really didn't think through what you were doing.. and he said.. yeah thats kinda exactly what happened.
we currently still are broken up, however, we act like we are together. we skype all the time, say i love you, and just keep in contact and talk like we are dating. in fact, my coworkers and teachers still think we're dating because i still call him my boyfriend
i will be going there in 16 days for his 21st birthday! and i'm really hoping by the ending of the trip we are official again
i can't wait to see him because i haven't seen him since valentines day..i know thats not a long long time for some of you, but it's the longest we have gone without seeing each other, so it's been tough.
i want to say thank you so much to all of you who posted on the breakup thread, that meant so much to me, and really helped me get through the first few days which were so tough.
things are really looking up, and by no means are we perfect, but we know that what we have is something amazing, and no one is going anywhere in this relationship
i really haven't posted much on here since eric broke up with me in march.
so here's the scoop..
after the break up things were layin low for a little while, we weren't talking as much, and didn't skype at all. then, about a week after the break up we were suppose to have a date night that was planned before the break up, and so we decided to still have it. it was special because we hadn't skyped at all that entire week (we skype all the time, including when we sleep just an fyi) and it was such a great night. we were laughing, and it was really nice to not be upset, and i was genuinely happy.
anyways, after that, each day we just tried to work on our problems more and more, fight less, and realize the issues that need to be worked on. we were talking about the break up one night and i said to him your such a guy, you probably didn't really want to break up with me you were just in the heat of the moment and really didn't think through what you were doing.. and he said.. yeah thats kinda exactly what happened.
we currently still are broken up, however, we act like we are together. we skype all the time, say i love you, and just keep in contact and talk like we are dating. in fact, my coworkers and teachers still think we're dating because i still call him my boyfriend
i will be going there in 16 days for his 21st birthday! and i'm really hoping by the ending of the trip we are official again
i can't wait to see him because i haven't seen him since valentines day..i know thats not a long long time for some of you, but it's the longest we have gone without seeing each other, so it's been tough.i want to say thank you so much to all of you who posted on the breakup thread, that meant so much to me, and really helped me get through the first few days which were so tough.
things are really looking up, and by no means are we perfect, but we know that what we have is something amazing, and no one is going anywhere in this relationship
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