Does saying I love you...matters...always?

[JEREIANEDREI]

..this past few weeks I notice that my man is not fun of saying "I LOVE YOU"...
..everytime I tell that line,,he will just ignore and change the topic...what does it mean?...is it bad?...

please I need your advices....

[13000km]

Don't assume the worst yet. Tell him exactly how that makes you feel without making it sound like you're accusing him of anything. Try to get him to talk things out and see things from his point of view. Good luck!

[Micah]

Well, if he is repeatedly ignoring when you tell him you love him, I would say he is having an issue that hopefully you two can discuss and work through. If it's just a every once in a while thing, I wouldn't worry too much about it.

[LadyMarchHare]

Has he ever said the words back before? Because if he hasn't and you're just throwing them out there, he may not be ready to say them back. Now if he has said them in the past and no longer returns it when you say it then yes I would definitely talk to him and ask him if there is anything going on or if he feels something is missing or wrong in the relationship enough that he cannot say it.

[NaNi]

I would feel sad about it. Especially since you write it first and one obviously would like to hear those same words back. If he keeps doing that I would just ask him about it. I'm guilty of doing that too, but only when I'm really upset or angry. I do apolozige afterwards though and I tell my SO that I love her.

[kiara_silver]

I personally would worry, because those words are meaningful, and if there not returned, i would feel something was wrong. Once when talking to my SO i left and he hadn't told me he loved me when we said goodnight, once i got off i relized it instantly and felt upset and wondered what was wrong. (lol nothing was wrong i just left to soon) Those three little words mean alot in my opinion, if he has told you he loves you before and just now isn't i would bring it up and ask him whats wrong.

[Moon]

It depends...are you saying "I love you" to him every 22 seconds? If so, the words have probably lost their meaning to him, and he might be tired of having to give the expected response. If you're sure you aren't over-using the phrase, and your occasional "I love you" is met with silence, then you and he need to have a serious discussion about it. There really isn't much other advice anyone can give you, we don't know if it's bad, we don't know your SO. That's something you need to find out. Good luck.

[JEREIANEDREI]

thanks guys for the advices,,,but honestly it hurts me...coz before he used to say I LOVE YOU...now he dont even say it back everytime I'm telling to him the word...I dont wanna think negatively...I LOVE MY SO a lot...I'm a very sweet person thats why it bothers me....but thanks for the advices anyways....I do appreciated it

[we'reunderthesamesky]

It means alot to me. I'm a very emotional person and I need to hear from him these words. Saying I Love You multiple times a day doesnt annoy my SO coz I told him from the start that whenever I say these words, I mean it. That's just how we are.

[JEREIANEDREI]

me too..I told him that...thats why I'm very emotional by now that even saying I love you,,or replying to me by saying it,,he's not fun of doing it....I felt so bad...I dont wanna think negatively....but honestly It hurts me

[Rach]

I would personally ask him if something was wrong and tell him how I felt. There is nothing else you really can do but ignore it and let it eat you up.
Just be honest.

[kireinamida]

Ask him why he's not saying it back. Tell him what you feel when he's not saying it. You'll never know what's going on with him if you don't talk about it.

[JEREIANEDREI]

i did it already,,I ask him..but he just get rid of it and change the topic....but earlier after FEW WEEKS...I'm almost teary eyed coz guess what?....HE ANSWERED ME BACK SAYING "LOVE YOU TOO"....maybe he's just havin' problems at home..thats why it affects his moods this past few weeks....

BTW...THANKS GUYS!.THANKS FOR THE RESPONSE AND FOR THE ADVICES!...I LOVE LFAD COMMUNITY..TOO MUCHH NOW!..

[JEREIANEDREI]

i did it already,,I ask him..but he just get rid of it and change the topic....but earlier after FEW WEEKS...I'm almost teary eyed coz guess what?....HE ANSWERED ME BACK SAYING "LOVE YOU TOO"....maybe he's just havin' problems at home..thats why it affects his moods this past few weeks....

BTW...THANKS GUYS!.THANKS FOR THE RESPONSE AND FOR THE ADVICES!...I LOVE LFAD COMMUNITY..TOO MUCHH NOW!..

[we'reunderthesamesky]

BTW...THANKS GUYS!.THANKS FOR THE RESPONSE AND FOR THE ADVICES!...I LOVE LFAD COMMUNITY..TOO MUCHH NOW!..

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