I NEED HELP BAD :(

[Fra101]

Ok, so me and my SO have been in a LDR for just over 10 months now, and tonight she told me she would of broken up with me if I hadn't already bought my plane ticket to come see her for 6 weeks, because since New Years I have been too defensive when we have arguments (most of the time over the smallest things). All I need to know is that, is it different when your with your SO in person? I know she loves me, and I love her, I just want to stop falling out over the smallest things because I keep being defensive.I know I'll be a less defensive person when I'm her. I don't want to lose her, she's perfect in every single way possible

[Micah]

Usually when you are around your SO physically, all the little things you argue about fade away because you are so happy to be together. I hope that meeting up with your SO gives you that feeling too, and turns her feelings around.

[paulawriteslove]

Meeting your SO will be amazing You'll forget the little things that you argue about. Just remember to have fun and don't stress about the small stuff!

[kiara_silver]

aww im sure things will go amazing, i wish you two the best! My bf is also from scotland coming down here for the first time, so im in the same boat as you in this one. But i think all the problems and worries will melt away when your finally with your SO

[hillke]

Beau and I are definitely better in person than LD. We argue a lot when we're apart and we just don't fit as well as we do together. When we're together it's pretty much perfect and I forget how irritating he can be :-)

[emforever]

I think things will resolve themselves when you meet in person! I know my SO and I don't click as well when apart, but together things just go smoothly. The little things just don't seem important at all when together Best of luck to you!

[Fra101]

Thanks for the replies everyone, this is making me feel so much better