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    This is stupid and trivial...

    But when my guy likes EVERYTHING I say or do on facebook, it annoys me to know end. x.x

    I tried making a joke of it, and just casually saying how he always has to make his mark on something I've posted on facebook. He shrugged it off, but continues to still do it. I'm not even sure why it bugs me, but it's just one of those 'ticks' that makes my eye twitch.

    Does anyone else go through this, or am I standing alone on the island?

    #2
    My SO isn't on Facebook much and I'm not sure if he did that if it would annoy me or not, but I have a good friend that does this to me. Drives. me. insane. She likes all of my statuses and comments on all of them. I don't know why it drives me crazy, but it does. I think it's one of those things though that you might have to just grin and bare because it's not like you could say to someone, "stop liking all of my stuff!"

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      #3
      Oh god I HATE this!! It's like... okay... cool it off a bit now buddy...

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        #4
        That would annoy me, a lot I think.
        My SO and I are on FB, but we actually don't have any contact. I mean, we're linked (as our civil status is "married" to each other), but we don't have actual contact. No messages, no likes... and think I've only commented one of his statuses.

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          #5
          When my SO and I first got together, we were long distance from Indiana (where his family and I live, our hometown) to Florida, and we had a couple of friends who were dating who were long distance because of school, too - but only by a half hour. They saw each other every single weekend, yet the girl in the relationship (a close friend of mine) would comment on/like EVERYTHING her boyfriend (a close friend of my boyfriend) would post on facebook. And if someone commented on his status first, she would respond to that person's comment - even though the comment was geared toward her bf. It drove me NUTS. She would constantly talk about how much she missed him and how hard it was - which at first upset me because My SO and I only saw each other once every 2-3 months and they saw each other every weekend. So we kind of got into the groove real quick of not liking/commenting on everything each other posted because we realized how annoying it would get for each other and other people. Haha. I could see how it would get annoying, definitely! Depending on his personality, it could be you need to be blunt/obvious about it and just tell him that it's driving you crazy. If you think it would hurt his feelings and cause unnecessary drama, well... it's not really hurting you, so you could just learn to ignore it or live with it. >.< I'm not much help, sorry. Haha.

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            #6
            Originally posted by Mara View Post
            I think it's one of those things though that you might have to just grin and bare because it's not like you could say to someone, "stop liking all of my stuff!"
            Pretty much. It's not as if he's doing something horrible or being an indecent person. I maybe occasionally comment on his stuff, and that's usually when I'm tagged on it. I talk to him about what I've posted. So, I don't know why he has to make the same comment he already made to me on the status itself...

            Ah, well! He's lucky I love him. :P

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              #7
              Honestly that would super bug me too.

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                #8
                This thread is amusing. My SO and I are both on Facebook and we do post on each other's walls from time to time. I "like" stuff, post songs or comment on posts. I never got the impression that it was annoying her. BUT! After reading all the comments on here I had to go ask her to confirm it.

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                  #9
                  My SO doesn't "like" everything I post, nor does he comment on everything. I think we have a good balance of communication and/or contact via FB. I have friends who are in CDR's and I'm FB friends with both, and they are CONSTANTLY posting "I love you sooooo much! I miss you!!!" even though they only saw each other a few hours ago or even if they go maybe 2 days without seeing each other. If my SO was like that, it'd drive me insane lol. The one thing that bothers me about FB is when people "like" their own status or picture or something like that. It's like "duh, of course you like it, you posted it!" Herp derp.

                  "Do I love you? My God, if your love were a grain of sand, mine would be a universe of beaches."

                  Like a drum, my heart never stops beating for you.

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                    #10
                    I like a lot on my boyfriends stuff kinda guilty I never noticed. But I watch a lot of my friends talk to SO when they are same room it's redonkulous.

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                      #11
                      Maybe you're ticked off because it feels like he's watching/monitoring your every move on FB?
                      Met Online : July 2013
                      Met in person : April - May 2014 (3 wks)
                      2nd visit : June - August 2014 (2 months)
                      3rd visit : December - Jan (2wks)
                      Proposal : December 2014
                      Closed distance : February 2015
                      Married : April 5, 2015


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                        #12
                        as far as i know she doesnt find this annoying but most of her statuses i do comment on but i dont comment or like every single thing

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                          #13
                          I have a family member who does this, and it doesn't bother me really, but it does make me wonder if she even reads what I say. I try not to do this with my SO because I get it might be annoying, but if he ever did it to me, it wouldn't be the end of the world. There are far worse things someone could do.

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                            #14
                            Yes, there are far worse things. :P

                            And it's not something I'd deem worthy enough to bring up again. It's just one of those things, I wondered if I was the only one who found it annoying.

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                              #15
                              My boyfriend doesn't really go on facebook all that often, and to be honest neither do I. Only occasionally do we ever actually comment or Like each other statuses but I have to say I don't think I'd be all too bothered if we did it more often. My family and friends don't really know him all too well but they do see when I post on facebook so I think if he commented and whatnot it might give them a bit more insight to his personality. Or not. I really have no idea. But I don't see myself getting annoyed over this kind of thing, but then again, I'm a bit clingy when it comes to wanting all his attention.

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