Attributes

[Leigh]

Which attributes attracted you most to your SO?

[Minerva]

None of the above. It was his kindness, mainly. There is so much more to it than that, but mostly his kindness.

[BoogleBee]

It was mainly common interest really. We just understood each other and thought about things in similar ways we connected through typing and skype calls before we even saw what each other looked so I was first attracted to her personality and kindness and sweetness. And she just so happens to be beautiful

[jennten]

It was a combination of a lot of things. I found him attractive from the minute I saw him sitting at a table in our Humanities class, but as I became his friend and got to know him, I found out what a lovely person he is- kind, down to earth, ridiculously intelligent and talented, always wanting to better himself for the good of those around him... Yeah I was always attracted to him, but that's not enough for any relationship. His personality and worldview was what made me completely fall for him.

[leonsfangirl]

What attracted me was his sense of humour, he makes me laugh so much my face and sides hurt but he's a very smart cookie too so i picked intelligence... well all of them apply but that is how i got to know him.

[snow_girl]

We met at a christmas party and I noticed him from across the room so originally I would have to say it was his good looks lol

[Rosebud]

Well, I met my boyfriend online and so it was a few weeks before I actually got to see a photo of what he looked like. Because of this I can't really say his good looks or sexy-ness attracted me because I hadn't a clue what to imagine, and yet I don't want it to sound like I don't think he's handsome! Haha, since I definitely couldn't stop grinning when I saw his adorable puppydog face for the first time in an old black and white photo he sent me But I suppose if I had to say what attracted me to him right off the bat was how...open he was. That is to say, he was very sweet to me from the start and while we met in a chat room with plenty of other people who I was on less than good terms, for some reason he always stood loyal on my side. I still question even now why he did that but hey, I'm sure not going to wish it had turned out differently!

[Lina]

I would say that common interests played a big role, but it's not what attracted me to him. Mostly the fact that he's open-minded and friendly/sociable.

[Malaga]

I suppose common interests would be the closest description. It's not so much liking the same things (although that is part of it too), it's the fact we had the same fundamental values and things we were looking for in life and in love. It's not just what we were saying, it's mostly the way we talked to each other. It was special.

Also, not gonna lie, his looks were very important. But it's not that he fit my preconceived image of an ideal guy or anything. I just felt strong physical attraction from the start. I know he's not perfect, but to me he's the best looking guy I've seen in ages. I'm unconditionally attracted to him. I've seen objectively better looking guys since, but they did absolutely nothing for me. I like the way he cares about his body too, not for vanity but for being fit and healthy.

[13000km]

What attracted me FIRST was common interest, what kept me interested was the way he talked about stuff, his attitude towards the different things in his life. What I like most about him NOW is how encouraging he is and his strong-mindedness. And his hugs.

[Caitlin2009]

many many things attracted me to her, her amazing personality was one of them and the fact that i knew she was very smart and had so much potential in her, and her beauty inside and out was and still is the main reason i fell in love with her

[FadedSunrise]

Common interest/common beliefs, athletic(although this one counts for common interests as well), and uh...personality. Kind and friendly, but strong and highly motivated.

[CaptainKaz]

Sense of humour. Also, I liked his beard. He looked all rugged.

[Malaga]

Sense of humour. Also, I liked his beard. He looked all rugged.

Yes! I'm a huge fan of facial hair <3

[CaptainKaz]

Yes! I'm a huge fan of facial hair <3

It's a new thing for me, I think specifically inspired by him. But from now on, I order my prince charming with a side order of face fur.