Hi there,
I was posting my story here and there.
Shortly my exfb from Australia contacted me 5 months ago after 9 month not having any contact. We are not together, but we act like. And when the time comes to make it serious and make a plan to visit each other to be something real, he turns around and acts distant with me, telling me how he dislike my behaviour towards us. He is just a workaholic and there is nothing else in his life. He does makes plans he has a lot of ideas how we could potentially close the distance between us, but when the time comes to act he doesn't do anything and turns around. = but everything was his idea not mine.
I feel toxic and I am also having some health issues, and this stress does not help me.
I truly think I was better of without him when he broke up with me, without saying anything, and we were just planning his visit to me exactly a year ago ( he got his british passport etc, he could leave AUS or at least to try, but didn't even mention me that he received the passport)
My friends telling me is like I am in an abusive relationship and I am unable to move forward, I cannot leave him ( just this one is an emotional abuse)
What should I do ? Because if I am being honest with myself I still hold the hope that we meet and everything will be fine, but since he left me back then I have no trust, and since he is just telling me how could he help me and could come etc, but doesn't do anything when it comes to actions !!!
I was posting my story here and there.
Shortly my exfb from Australia contacted me 5 months ago after 9 month not having any contact. We are not together, but we act like. And when the time comes to make it serious and make a plan to visit each other to be something real, he turns around and acts distant with me, telling me how he dislike my behaviour towards us. He is just a workaholic and there is nothing else in his life. He does makes plans he has a lot of ideas how we could potentially close the distance between us, but when the time comes to act he doesn't do anything and turns around. = but everything was his idea not mine.
I feel toxic and I am also having some health issues, and this stress does not help me.
I truly think I was better of without him when he broke up with me, without saying anything, and we were just planning his visit to me exactly a year ago ( he got his british passport etc, he could leave AUS or at least to try, but didn't even mention me that he received the passport)
My friends telling me is like I am in an abusive relationship and I am unable to move forward, I cannot leave him ( just this one is an emotional abuse)
What should I do ? Because if I am being honest with myself I still hold the hope that we meet and everything will be fine, but since he left me back then I have no trust, and since he is just telling me how could he help me and could come etc, but doesn't do anything when it comes to actions !!!
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