Does your SO say they want to marry someone famous?

[ImInLove]

Is it normal for your SO to say something like.. "I want to marry him" about some famous person... and your SO says it directly to you... like "I want to marry hugh jackman" or something like this?
even if they say they love you many times and they said they mean it?

[Joyce:)]

I joked around with my boyfriend telling him he's lucky prince william is off the market. you can say it as a joke, in a relationship you have to leave some space for humor, and if you say such a thing it doesn't mean you don't love your SO.
tell your SO, if it bothers you, to stop saying it, but otherwise, really, there's nothing to worry about

[nicole]

My SO has never said "marry", but he's said "I have the biggest crush on *insert celebrity*". He hasn't done that in a while, and says he can't remember even saying those things, but I remember clearly

You can find someone other then your SO attractive and not want to do anything about it. I bet your SO just means she finds a certain celebrity attractive, she doesn't really have plans to go try to marry them!

[ImInLove]

ok, thanks for the opinions... she said... "in my highest dream, i want to marry *famous person name here*"...

[Joyce:)]

i bet she didn't mean it in a bad way, she just didn't pay attention to how she was wording the sentence

[ImInLove]

ok thankyou

[Zephii]

Yeah pretty normal. I told Obi once that I'm only marrying him because Heath Ledger is dead. I didn't mean it of course.

[Malaga]

I know my boyfriend fancies a few celebrities. I hate hearing about it though. They all look nothing like me and I'm struggling with my body image so it does nothing to help me. I understand it's nothing serious and that I'm taking it way too seriously. Also I'm perfectly fine with him discussing celeb crushes with his mates. I just don't want to know. I don't know if I'll ever be so self-assured to just be "ha-ha" about it.

Also, I forgot all about my celeb crushes since I met him, he's the only person I feel attracted to. I don't know if that makes me a freak, but it saddens me when I think he doesn't feel the same. I know he loves me to bits, but it's still not the same.
My confidence is just really poor.

[Yaaamiii]

It's a normal thing to do it, I used to mess with my boyfriend at first but I started noticing subtle hints that it bothered him so I stopped. Every now and then we'll still say to each other than I think that actor in the movie we're watching is hot and sometimes he'll say the same thing about the actresses but we don't do it much anymore. If it bothers you, let her know How will she know if you don't tell her?

[milaya]

Yeah pretty normal. I told Obi once that I'm only marrying him because Heath Ledger is dead. I didn't mean it of course.

Lol. Love it.

I really don't think you should think too much into it.

My SO and I are married, but I still tell him I was meant to marry Nishikido Ryo (famous Japanese actor). Think it's more healthy to be abke to joke about such things.

[FadedSunrise]

Yea, recently after watching Xmen first class, I asked him whether he'd seen the Xmen series. He said his favorite was the Wolverine movie. I joked that sorry but, wow, Hugh Jackman is both much taller and more good looking than he is xD. I wouldn't do it regularly, and he knew it was a one time joke. I am also of the opinion that jokes like this are healthy once in a while, but I would stop if it started bothering him.

[littleone]

Yeah pretty normal. I told Obi once that I'm only marrying him because Heath Ledger is dead. I didn't mean it of course.

I agree about heath ledger lol. I don't think we have joked about marrying or being with a celebrity in a while. Its fake fantasties we don't know them except by the characters they play and what media says.

[Riyko]

Lol. Love it.

I really don't think you should think too much into it.

My SO and I are married, but I still tell him I was meant to marry Nishikido Ryo (famous Japanese actor). Think it's more healthy to be abke to joke about such things.

Nishikido Ryo = <3, he's so hot and he's a good actor!

[kaitycat]

I know my boyfriend fancies a few celebrities. I hate hearing about it though. They all look nothing like me and I'm struggling with my body image so it does nothing to help me. I understand it's nothing serious and that I'm taking it way too seriously. Also I'm perfectly fine with him discussing celeb crushes with his mates. I just don't want to know. I don't know if I'll ever be so self-assured to just be "ha-ha" about it.

Also, I forgot all about my celeb crushes since I met him, he's the only person I feel attracted to. I don't know if that makes me a freak, but it saddens me when I think he doesn't feel the same. I know he loves me to bits, but it's still not the same.
My confidence is just really poor.

I don't think that makes you a freak at all! I feel the same way. I can't remember the last time I saw any man (actor, athlete, super model or regular guy) and thought to myself, "wow, he's a hunk!". Not since I started seeing my SO, that's for sure.

[milaya]

I guess I see it a basic human instinct to find another person attractive, whether we're in a relationship or not. (of course it doesn't apply to everybody - nothing does). It has nothing to do with love - since we "rarely" know that person. Then the thing with love is that it also makes our SO seem even more attractive in our eyes, when we see them with love sparkles. (especially in the first period of a relationship). - Personally, I'm once again back to crushing over Japanese celebrities. XD
I make a lot of "I wanna marry..." jokes, and still make sad, heavy sighs if I watch Japanese dramas (starring hot actors) together with my SO, just to annoy him. But... he knows I married him and I love him.

I think people tend to say "marry", so make it more fairytale-like. ("then they married and lived happily ever after") also since marriage is "normally" not just something that just happens (at least if, alcohol, drugs, money, Vegas etc. are not included). It gives a neutral, funny touch to the whole thing. I think, if I said "I really wanna have sex with *name*", my SO would probably not find it cute nor funny anymore.

Nishikido Ryo = <3, he's so hot and he's a good actor!

Right?!
Just by that quote,... you're my new best friend XD haha.